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    Muldoon is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Break Up Text Exchange, How did I do?

    So I broke up with my girlfriend of three months last night. I kind of expected it although it still hurts. I want you guys to tell me if I acted beta or alpha or what, and try to translate what she said to me from womanese to plain old English.

    Her: To be perfectly honest, I want us to break up.

    Me: Ok

    Her: Do you wanna talk?

    Me: At this point it even doesn't matter, it's over

    Her: I love you and I want what's best for each of us. I can't accept your dark side, that is a part of you and I don't like what it believes or how it acts

    Her: You need to deal with that

    Me: Whatever lady, if that makes you feel better

    Her: Okay, keep hiding, that's been working real well

    Me: To dismiss someone you apparently love is much darker than anything I would have done to you

    Her: I need to be true to myself and do what's best for me. I do love you and I think you need this too to realize you need to change as well

    Me: goodbye (her name)

    Her: Goodbye Mr. Booboo

    Her:

    And that's it. Tell me what you think please. Was this an alpha exit, a beta one, or what? I think she has found another guy that she likes because she told me that she was talking to someone and I said it bothered me and I didn't want her to talk to him anymore. She said she wouldn't but I read their text convo, and she said she would call him back. Apparently they used to date and have sex, so I think she is with him now.

    Feels weird because I didn't beta backslide too hard at all, I caught myself and re upped the alpha I thought. Maybe I was wrong.

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    parapa is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Break Up Text Exchange, How did I do?

    Dark side...that's crap. Unless you are into a death cult or something

    I didn't understand the "keep hiding" thing. What could she mean by that?You were hiding from what?I believe she wanted to make drama at that point.

    "To dismiss someone you apparently love is much darker than anything I would have done to you", that sounded bitter.

    " I need to be true to myself and do what's best for me. I do love you and I think you need this too to realize you need to change as well","Me: goodbye (her name)"

    1)Change for what?For her?Who does she think she is...
    2)Why did you tell her goodbye at that point?That was a bitter answer...
    3)Was this whole conversation by SMS?If yeah, then she is the one who hides mate
    4)Do you want this girl back?Is it worth trying?

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    Muldoon is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Break Up Text Exchange, How did I do?

    1)Change for what?For her?Who does she think she is...

    I have no idea, rationalizations I presume.

    2)Why did you tell her goodbye at that point?That was a bitter answer...

    Well I was kinda bitter, I'd at least wanted to talk to her in person one more time. This girl told me she loved me two days earlier and I reciprocated.

    You think saying goodbye was bitter? I figured it would be better to decisively end it rather than continuing on. She obviously lost attraction for me if shes breaking up w me via text.

    3)Was this whole conversation by SMS?If yeah, then she is the one who hides mate

    yes it was. Lame I know.

    4)Do you want this girl back?Is it worth trying?

    no


    I'm trying to gain experience for what NOT to do in the future, thanks for the response.

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    Muldoon is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Break Up Text Exchange, How did I do?

    "To dismiss someone you apparently love is much darker than anything I would have done to you", that sounded bitter.

    Uhhh I know...I was 'in love' with her. I wanted to come across as totally indifferent. You think that was bad?

    Well it's been 6 weeks since I've seen her/talked to her. I just wonder what she thinks sometimes.

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    Default Re: Break Up Text Exchange, How did I do?

    6 weeks...well the fact is does she care about how you're coping with the whole situation? Just try to invest in yourself...if a man follows his dreams then women will follow as well.You are the prize here man, if she ain't worth it then she won't get it.


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