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    sircooliothecat is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Going for drink with exes hot mom

    My borderline personality disorder fiance left me yesterday cause I was to much of a drill Sargent lol may have misread the test and gave her to much attention and control and gave in a little to much. I didn't know if it was a abandonment needs test or a dominance needs test I went abandonment needs test and went vulnerable. In retrospect it was a test for dominance and failed miserably. Lol so now I'm in complete NC mode with ex girlfriend showing interest. And messaging her to back off.

    So next day borderline personality disorder mom messages me and I ask her out for drinks. Any advice. First post.

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    Default Re: Going for drink with exes hot mom

    Bro, are you mad? Lol.

    If your ex is really BPD (is she properly diagnosed?) you'll know that a lot of psychiatrists believe that this is related to parenting issues. And you want to go for a drink with her mum? Wtf! Lol.

    I don't see that you can gain anything from this. Your BPD ex could go mental, depending what type she is. Her mum could be BPD too and suck you into more drama. Or your ex and/or her mum could think this is a ruse to make your ex jealous and that makes you look bad.

    If your ex is BPD, be grateful that you never married her and had to put up with years of push/pull, acting out, cheating, distancing etc.

    Read the articles on psych forum websites and grow, heal and learn from this experience and become a stronger man.

    When she comes back as you know as a BPD she will do, man up, take the pain and end the toxic relationship for good. And btw it will take you a long time to get over the abuse because that's what it is and it's so easy to get recycled again and again.

    I apologise if this sounds harsh or is not what you wanted to hear but I mean well and you have been through enough if she really is BPD.

    Good luck bro, be strong and time is now your greatest friend.

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    sircooliothecat is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Going for drink with exes hot mom

    Thanks so much oh yeah total textbook bpd. Went for drinks with the mom f closed the next night yeah I'm mad. She's super abusive I think I had to get even to move on.. I know it's immature but I felt I had to get the last word. I've blocked changed numbers etc to try to get away and I know not to get sucked in no matter what. I know I wasn't any better then her for doing this. So right now I'm just trying to f anything in sight to get it out my mind.


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