My borderline personality disorder fiance left me yesterday cause I was to much of a drill Sargent lol may have misread the test and gave her to much attention and control and gave in a little to much. I didn't know if it was a abandonment needs test or a dominance needs test I went abandonment needs test and went vulnerable. In retrospect it was a test for dominance and failed miserably. Lol so now I'm in complete NC mode with ex girlfriend showing interest. And messaging her to back off.
So next day borderline personality disorder mom messages me and I ask her out for drinks. Any advice. First post.