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Thread: Help getting my ex back (background story)

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    Default Help getting my ex back (background story)

    So I dated this girl for about 3-4 months last year, and at the time I wasn't ready for an exclusive relationship, so we broke it off. It wasn't pretty, but it's something we laugh about now. Let's call her #1 to keep everything straight.

    Anyway, in the meantime I'd been dating a different girl (call her #2) for 5+ months with whom I just broke up on Wednesday (2 days ago). That same day, #1 contacts me asking if I'm ok. She apparently saw the facebook status update I guess. Anyway, I tell her I'm not great, but ok as I kinda saw the breakup with #2 coming. So over the last 2 days #2 and I have been texting back and forth, and she seemed at least a little bit excited that I was going to be moving to a new place that is significantly closer to her.

    But then today we're texting and we both say we enjoy talking to each other, but then she adds "Talking as friends.....I'm not in a place for anything right now". I'm not really sure what to make of it. I know we had some phenomenal sex when we were dating (best I've ever had) and I know she liked it too, but I'm not sure how to play my cards here. Could she be looking for just a random hookup with me? Or legitimately not looking for anything at this point?

    Any help would be appreciated!!

    - Oramac

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    Default Re: Help getting my ex back (background story)

    'Not looking for anything right now' and 'I'm not ready for a relationship', those types of things are all excuses. If two awesome people meet and truly fall in love there will be none of those nonsense excuses.

    Likely you both already know you might never be long term but seeing as you're both single she might be a bit lonely, sentimental, jealous of #2 or simply just horny. I would ignore her trying to define it as 'friends' and just keep chatting to her in a fun flirtatious way like you would anyone else. Don't discuss the past relationship or anything negative too much. Be confident and positive about the future.

    Try and get her to instigate the meet up if you can or if you have to ask her out again keep it casual. Then when you meet ignore anything she says resembling a test or 'LJBF' and just Kino like you would with anyone else. It should not be hard to get her horny again. She might resist but I'm sure you can confidently work around that: 'I'm kissing you, I'm not down on my hands and knees with a ring haha...now come here sexy little "friend" reeoooww!' or 'I can tell by the way you dressed tonight, the way you look at me and the way you have been messaging me that you miss me, now come back here into my lips babe '.

    Deep down you have to be honest and courageous with yourself and decide what you really want of her. A bit of rebound sex? Sentimental sex? Another go at the relationship? Revenge sex for #2? Or move on to new pastures? The bravest thing to do is move onto to new women and new experiences. #1 was the best sex ever - but only so far!!! Life is short. Trump her with someone new and superior. No U-turns in life. Keep spiralling upwards.

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    Default Re: Help getting my ex back (background story)

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    'Not looking for anything right now' and 'I'm not ready for a relationship', those types of things are all excuses. If two awesome people meet and truly fall in love there will be none of those nonsense excuses.

    Likely you both already know you might never be long term but seeing as you're both single she might be a bit lonely, sentimental, jealous of #2 or simply just horny. I would ignore her trying to define it as 'friends' and just keep chatting to her in a fun flirtatious way like you would anyone else. Don't discuss the past relationship or anything negative too much. Be confident and positive about the future.

    Try and get her to instigate the meet up if you can or if you have to ask her out again keep it casual. Then when you meet ignore anything she says resembling a test or 'LJBF' and just Kino like you would with anyone else. It should not be hard to get her horny again. She might resist but I'm sure you can confidently work around that: 'I'm kissing you, I'm not down on my hands and knees with a ring haha...now come here sexy little "friend" reeoooww!' or 'I can tell by the way you dressed tonight, the way you look at me and the way you have been messaging me that you miss me, now come back here into my lips babe '.

    Deep down you have to be honest and courageous with yourself and decide what you really want of her. A bit of rebound sex? Sentimental sex? Another go at the relationship? Revenge sex for #2? Or move on to new pastures? The bravest thing to do is move onto to new women and new experiences. #1 was the best sex ever - but only so far!!! Life is short. Trump her with someone new and superior. No U-turns in life. Keep spiralling upwards.
    Good thoughts. I appreciate your input. Thank you!

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    Default Re: Help getting my ex back (background story)

    I guess I should specify though. I very highly doubt I'll ever find a girl with whom the sex is better than #1, as she is a squirter, and a damn good one at that. I'm not talking like "oh, she gave a little squirt once in a while". I mean this chick makes a fire hose look like a garden sprinkler.

    In any case, thanks for the thoughts!


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