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    havefun is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Did Nocontact, how to reinitiate?

    Hi everyone!

    I am reading the forum from alot of time, but this time I decided to ask something. I working on self improvement and trying different PUA technics from 2 years. I would usually pass to the next girl, but this time I want to keep my relationship.

    I knew the girl from one year, before we got into a relationship, which lasted six months. She liked me alot from the first time we`ve met, but I was to busy playing other girls and dealing with my other priorities, so I friendsoned her.

    With time she got really attracted to me and I to her. I did not have oneitis, but was in love really. The first five months were very nice and I know that she never met a man like me. Boys in her social circle are pretty AFC. I could make here want horny anywhere and we did have alot of fun together, since I took her to places with me which she never visited and we did alot of fun stuff.

    As time passed I did got comforted with the relationship and turned really AFC. The last month I did have some other problems and when we got into a bad fight and split I was really shocked and confused. I begged, cried and said that I would do anything to keep her. Eventually we got together again, but it was awful, since I was acting like a p*ssy.

    So I decided to go into no contact. I told her that I am hurt and she will not be able to contact me again, she was sad, but I blocked her from facebook and viber. A few days later my cellphone contract expired, so I`ve got a new phone number. At this situation there was no way she could contact me.

    I did have fun this three weeks, went on a tour to a mountain resort, next week I am going abroad in a different country. I am also going out and playing other girls.

    It is three weeks like this now and she may have called me, but my old phone number is not working anymore. How do you thing it is best to reinitiate contact?

    Thanks in advance!

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    havefun is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Did Nocontact, how to reinitiate?

    Come on guys, I would really appreciate some advice.

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    Default Re: Did Nocontact, how to reinitiate?

    OK man, you ****ed up. I'm not telling you what you should do, I'm telling you what I would do.

    Crying and this stuff...omg that's so bad. The blocking...bad as well.

    OK, I'm putting myself in a situation where I did this stuff. A good way to initiate a conversation is something like..."Hi this is "havefun"'s phone sending you an automated message to inform all of his friends that he is back from that enlightment trip from India!-----He's too busy drinking beers now in that Czech bar with some old pals----- and wished you were there as well to share his newfound wisdom!...."

    This message is crap, I know. The situation you're in is crap as well. So fight crap with crap. say something light and funny, improvise. The ---text--- I put is a way of inserting an experience you had with that girl, in order to have a reason that you sent her a message, an experience you share, I inserted one of mine as an example.

    If she doesn't text back, I would text her again in 2 days saying something sucky as well, e.g. sorry for not texting back but a monkey I brought from India started playing with my phone and sending texts to everyone, then I started chasing it for like 2 km(boy they are FAST). Well, it climbed up on a banana tree(where the heck did it find it in Alaska, probably the only one here) and we had to call the marshal to shoot it down with anesthesia. Thank God it got arrested and now faces charges for assaulting an officer, since it threw bananas on him. They jailed it, but I bailed it out, felt sorry for it.I will escort it back to India next week, it's so cool.", then I would find a freaking monkey and get a picture with it to MMS send her and wait for a response. If she didn't respond, I would just let it go, I'm not a chaser AFC.

    The situation is simply so bad. Only crazy stuff can make it good again, really.

    Well good luck, update if possible.

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    Default Re: Did Nocontact, how to reinitiate?

    Whatever you do it will never be the same again. Learn from your mistakes and move on like a man.

    But use Parapa's kind of confident humoress story for the next girls coming your way. Plenty of fish in the sea. Cut the line and get rid of your snag.

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    Default Re: Did Nocontact, how to reinitiate?

    I just gave her a call, but after hearin who is calling and that this is my new number, she sad "Okay" and closed.

    Looks like I will have to move on, although I still have feelings for her.


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