So she broke up with me. We dated for three months and it was the most perfect relationship that either of us have been in. Unfortunately stress, insecurity and anxiety got the best of her and she ran away from the thought of an exclusive relationship. She needed to be on her own to get through her life problems. Anyway three days after the breakup as a Hail Mary text I said "hey I have a date lined up this Saturday but I still care for you. Do you want to meet up? If not then yea..." I didn't actually have a date, it was a desperation move.
I hope that this wasn't that bad of a move tbh. I feel like she may have thought 'wow how could he have found someone else already!? I guess I'm lucky i broke up with him'. I'm hoping she didn't coz then it would be harder to get her back in the future.
The following day she texts back saying "hey I'll text to tonight to see if I can make or or not". Then that night she says "hey my week is super hectic but I hope you have fun Saturday ". I couldn't tell if she was serious or she was just hiding her pain. I didn't respond to that. Then the next day on the evening she says "Hey *indyboy362, I hope all is going well with you!". Now I'm even more confused . Maybe she isn't that mad at me for having a date?
So the plan now with me is to just do no contact. I'm a week in so far but I'm worried that the fact I told her I was going on a date will change everything once I reconnect in a month or two. Should I text her and say I didn't go on the date? Do I stick to no contact and reconnect later? I need help on this, thanks.