Try not to fall asleep, I tried to write the story as short as possible
So, I dated this girl for 7 months, we started seeing each other way too often and I became totally AFC. She started to be distant, stopped laughing at my jokes, responses to texts etc only a few words. Should have noticed these signs!
Anyway, I started the discussion of why she acts so distant and she said she needs time to think about stuff. Took all my stuff from her house and gave back her key. After two weeks she said that she is not sure if she wants to be with anyone right now. We agreed on the break up and I went no contact.
Two weeks goes by and she sent me a text "I was thinking to ask you if you are at home so I could pick up my stuff on my way home but I got sick and went home." I replied: Okay, let me know when you are driving by next time and youīll get it then if I happen to be at home. Left it there and didnīt contact her again.
Another two weeks goes by and she sends me this: "Hey, I just wanted to let you know that I havenīt forgotten about you. I almost suggested to meet but I have school and it starts early tomorrow (she goes to school in another city two days a month). So, maybe next time. I am also sorry if I have acted childish and stupid."
I replied again that she calls me or sends a text when she drives by so we can meet and go for a walk or coffee. And she can get her stuff. We texted back and forth for half an hour and then I said I have to go.
Two days later I sent her a text where I told her I had a really small speedo on when I was at the pool with a client (Iīm a physio by profession). It made me laugh and think about the time I had her bikini on when she left them at my place. She replied like instantly and we texted a little bit.
Should I let her get back in touch or should I make the effort to set up the meeting so "she can get her stuff back"?
By the way, the stuff is two pairs of socks and a few lunchboxes..