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    DjSuspence is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation Looking for advice with recent Ex plz help!!

    Me and my ex of 7 months broke up about 3 weeks ago but were hooking up on and off for about 2 years. Things were great even for the first couple of months and then she just started getting self conscious about little things i said like they were directed twords her. Then she started just getting upset with me over little things and we would argue alot to the point she said shes not happy so then it went to hell. She was being controlling telling me what i need to do and stuff and im not taking that. So long story short shes blaming me for everything like im suppose to conform to her wants and needs. Sad thing is i fell like i could have done more than what I did but i treated her fantastic. 3 days laterI told her i still had feelings and wanted her back but she wont trying to hear it and was like shes blocking me blah blah blah. So about 2 days ago she texted me asking did she leave her dress over here, i say no and then she calls and i tell her no again. Thing is i miss her and want her back because i know shes a good girl and good women are hard to find, but idk if No Contact will work because shes stubborn

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    John Alex Clark is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Looking for advice with recent Ex plz help!!

    Applying the no-contact rule should work on her, but I think you need to address the cause of the break-up first. Try to use the no-contact period to assess your relationship with her and think about when and why she got all self-conscious about these "little things" you were saying and when the controlling behavior began to surface and why it happened. You need to try and find a way to address these problems directly or they will resurface again even if you do get back together.


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