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    Default Still a chance?

    My ex and I broke up last week cause she found out she was pregnant by another guy. She hardly knows him and it doesn't seem like she really wants to be with him, but wants to try and make it work for the baby. It's easy for him to say hey I'll take care of you and the baby. The thing is she admits they aren't in love and don't consider each other bf/gf. Without love I get the feeling he can be gone tomorrow. They were casually hooking up and then stopped talking back in August. I'll still be with her, because I sincerely loved her and would support her and the baby. We've talked every day since breaking up and she's tried to call me. Last night we texted till 4 am. I made a lunch date with her for today, but I asked who's taking her to the doc appointment Thursday and she said he is. At this point I started feeling guilty if he is trying to step up for the baby. I then canceled our date.

    What's the best thing to do here guys? Should I be distant and let them figure it out, or keep pulling her back to me?

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    Default Re: Still a chance?

    You're close to 30 years-old I guess. The question is, do you want to raise another guy's son? That's the main point here. Oh and by the way, once her son is born, your time together will be reduced. Very.

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    Default Re: Still a chance?

    I'm 24 and she's 25. I would be completely willing to be a father figure to her child if were together.

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    Default Re: Still a chance?

    If you like her that much, then go get her. Thing is, you're 24. You're very young, almost as young as I am, and I raising a child is the last of my goals for the next 10 years. If one of your main goals is to be a father so soon, then go for it, who should know it better than you?
    And she's attracted to you, but she's got an emotional connection to the other guy, since he's the biological father of her son.

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    Default Re: Still a chance?

    All things considered, it's going to be rather hard for you to maintain a relationship with her since as lenric says, her child will give her an emotional connection with this other guy and he does seem to be interested in making it work between him and your ex. With that said, if you're really dead-set on making things work out between you and your ex, then you have to go all out and try to win your ex back. Don't even mind what this other guy is doing and just focus on making your ex fall in love with you.


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