So long story short. Girl and I have talked for a while, about 7 months. She says she doesn't see it working out and wants to experience the dating scene (She was in a year long long distance relationship before me) so she wants to go out and have fun. Im hurt by this but I also have been going out and having my kicks as well.
I want her back because she now seems like she is trying to settle down. She has been dating a few people and told me that she is getting close with one of them. Here is the problem though. She still flirts with me and say random stuff. For instance
1.) We went out to a bar to grab drinks, she started telling me about the guys she was sleeping with and even showed me pics, I told her that was rude as fark and walked away from her. When I got out of the bathroom she told me I looked good and tried to wrap her arms around my waist but i moved them aside and went back to where we were sitting.
2.) On the way home I wanted her (she was driving) I wanted to her to stay over my place for a bit when we arrived, she told me she didn't want to "because she knows exactly what would happen" 10 min later she looks over and sees me chatting on Tindr. She screams "REALLY?!" and literally breaks the speed limit to drop me off as fast a possible.
3.) One night we were face timing and she told me she is upset we can't just be friends. I told her "I know what I deserve in my life and I don't settle" she called me selfish but minutes later starts flirting in the same convo saying things like "Don you give me those eyes" and kept smiling. Then when I go out she asks me where I was so I told her a friends house and she said "Oh friend huh. what kind of friend."
4.) Tonight she asked me what I was up to and I told her I had plans to meet up with someone but couldn't due to an injury I got over the holidays. I told her I felt bad for promising to meet this bartender girl for drinks. She then replies with "A date huh. Thats cute I'm happy for you" and then starts telling me "Well, hope this doesn't hurt you.......but,This guy im talking doesn't want to drink .... We're getting close but he doesn't like to drink.... That's a problem." I told her that that sucked and asked her when she is free again because I wanted to give her a gift I got her for xmas. She told me not tonight because she is spending the night with this dude. I got a little beta here and told her to have fun with him but its not gonna amount to the fun we had. She stopped texting
So what gives guys, there is a lot of shyt testing going on between the both of us, there is nagging and what feels like pushing and pulling, but I need to pull harder because I don't need her falling for this orbiter. She has a kid, and works full time so her off time is limited, I work retail so crazy hours and she refuses to come by my house because we are both horn dogs and know it will go down (Which I am dying to do again). How do I get her back on my team