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    AbandonAllHope is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Is making things right worth it?

    Hello everyone, I'm new on the forums.

    I apologize in advance if my thread is in the wrong sub forum, but I couldn't find a more relevant one.

    So let me start:

    INTRO:

    I've been in the game for couple of years, but started practicing it to the maximum since the break-up (2-year relationship) with my last girlfriend (let's call her "Lucy"), which was approx. 9 months ago. Since then I was constantly closing and banging, though that I was at my prime.

    THE PROBLEM:

    As you know, every story has it's "but". To keep it simple, for almost a year I wasn't able to connect with any girl. I recently met up with my ex ex(the one I was with before Lucy). She drove 200km to see me and maybe get back together, we banged for 3 days after which she left as nothing happened and I managed to bond a lil' bit. As those 3 days passed, I realized how much that girl has changed in a bad way and also, I realized that I do not want her beside me, even though she re-ignited some of the old feelings. As I said, she left my place, we texted a bit and it was pretty rough. Afterwards, I kindly told her to F off and leave me alone.

    THE PLOT:

    After meeting up with my ex ex, I realized how much superior "Lucy" was to her. Literally, like comparing heaven and hell, good and bad.
    The way I broke up with "Lucy" wasn't nice, she started texting me as the time passed but I was completely numb, didn't give a shit. The reason I was like that was 'cause of the thing that happened about a week later as we parted. We were together for 2 years and we haven't had sex 'cause shes a virgin (yeah, call me an AFC), but it didn't really bother me until I found out that she had sex with some random dude about a week after our break-up (don't know if I trust the rumors anymore).

    THE QUESTION:

    So lads, let's say I decide that I want to see "Lucy" again and make things right, explain to her why I was acting the way I was and hopefully stay in a friendly contact, ('cause I know it bothered her) how should I ask her out after being such an ass? Maybe she's the one that'll be the ass this time. What to do / what to say if she says no? Is it a good idea at all?

    Sorry for the long post, thanks to everyone who read this!

    Best regards

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    Default Re: Is making things right worth it?

    You didn't have sex with her for 2 years because she was a "virgin"? And then she had sex with some other random dude a week after your two broke up? Then you were cold with her afterwards. You are in extreme recovery mode and hung up on this girl. I would advise would be just to move on and find a better girl. If you really want to get back with her for some reason, it's best to not be in contact with her for several weeks and then ping her and invite her out to a social event where you have pre-selection and start over.
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    Default Re: Is making things right worth it?

    I agree with Will. Take time for yourself to find out if you are just in recovery mode or if you DO really want her back. Let the be a cool off period, in that time try to learn more about yourself, work on your inner game, and maybe quietly experiment with other women and see if there is better for you out there (many fish in the sea). Experiment doesn't HAVE to be sex by the way. Then if you still want to get back with her, message or call her up as a friend and see how she is doing and that is it. See if she tries to make contact again afterward. If so, you know there is still interest. Then later meet her in a public place as just friends for something as non leading like for coffee. Talk about things (not relationships or your past one) and then start from the ground up. Make her interested in you again.


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