Hello everyone, I'm new on the forums.
I apologize in advance if my thread is in the wrong sub forum, but I couldn't find a more relevant one.
So let me start:
I've been in the game for couple of years, but started practicing it to the maximum since the break-up (2-year relationship) with my last girlfriend (let's call her "Lucy"), which was approx. 9 months ago. Since then I was constantly closing and banging, though that I was at my prime.
As you know, every story has it's "but". To keep it simple, for almost a year I wasn't able to connect with any girl. I recently met up with my ex ex(the one I was with before Lucy). She drove 200km to see me and maybe get back together, we banged for 3 days after which she left as nothing happened and I managed to bond a lil' bit. As those 3 days passed, I realized how much that girl has changed in a bad way and also, I realized that I do not want her beside me, even though she re-ignited some of the old feelings. As I said, she left my place, we texted a bit and it was pretty rough. Afterwards, I kindly told her to F off and leave me alone.
After meeting up with my ex ex, I realized how much superior "Lucy" was to her. Literally, like comparing heaven and hell, good and bad.
The way I broke up with "Lucy" wasn't nice, she started texting me as the time passed but I was completely numb, didn't give a shit. The reason I was like that was 'cause of the thing that happened about a week later as we parted. We were together for 2 years and we haven't had sex 'cause shes a virgin (yeah, call me an AFC), but it didn't really bother me until I found out that she had sex with some random dude about a week after our break-up (don't know if I trust the rumors anymore).
So lads, let's say I decide that I want to see "Lucy" again and make things right, explain to her why I was acting the way I was and hopefully stay in a friendly contact, ('cause I know it bothered her) how should I ask her out after being such an ass? Maybe she's the one that'll be the ass this time. What to do / what to say if she says no? Is it a good idea at all?
Sorry for the long post, thanks to everyone who read this!