Me and my girl of 18 months split up last weekend.
She lives here in New Jersey 5.5 months a year and lives in San francisco 6.5 months a year and when she is here I barely get to see her. No worries I see her when I see her enjoy her when I get out to Cali nothing more nothing less - I see other women she sees other guys too where open about that. She flew in from Cali last weekend and me that she loved me but she thought that something was missing - i say I feel the same way and agree with her -she starts balling - I hug her and say - I been feeling the same way we should just let the relationship go and get on with our lives - I get up pack my stuff (we're at a hotel in the city) hug her goodbye as she continues to cry and I leave, That was Feb. 1 - no call text back and forth since then I'm cool with been on 4 dates had sex with 2 of them. Last night I get a message from her best friend on FB here it is " Hi Mike, I'm so sorry to hear about you and Susan. How are you doing?You are in my thoughts. Lona. Me and Lona do message occasionally on FB but haven't since August. Here's how I think I should answer her.
Hey Lona, all is great here, I wasn't happy in the relationship for a while and I was thinking about ending it for the last month anyway - it's for the best - how things going with you ?
What do you guys think ?