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Thread: How should I answer this ?

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    Default How should I answer this ?

    Me and my girl of 18 months split up last weekend.
    She lives here in New Jersey 5.5 months a year and lives in San francisco 6.5 months a year and when she is here I barely get to see her. No worries I see her when I see her enjoy her when I get out to Cali nothing more nothing less - I see other women she sees other guys too where open about that. She flew in from Cali last weekend and me that she loved me but she thought that something was missing - i say I feel the same way and agree with her -she starts balling - I hug her and say - I been feeling the same way we should just let the relationship go and get on with our lives - I get up pack my stuff (we're at a hotel in the city) hug her goodbye as she continues to cry and I leave, That was Feb. 1 - no call text back and forth since then I'm cool with been on 4 dates had sex with 2 of them. Last night I get a message from her best friend on FB here it is " Hi Mike, I'm so sorry to hear about you and Susan. How are you doing?You are in my thoughts. Lona. Me and Lona do message occasionally on FB but haven't since August. Here's how I think I should answer her.
    Hey Lona, all is great here, I wasn't happy in the relationship for a while and I was thinking about ending it for the last month anyway - it's for the best - how things going with you ?
    What do you guys think ?
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    Default Re: How should I answer this ?

    My rule of thumb is I never walk out on a girl when she is crying and that's not a guy/girl/pua thing that's a human thing, we all need to have compassion for people that are hurt, I also wouldn't say anything about the breakup to her friend ..... would just stick to "I'm doing good, how are you ???" Because Lona is either doing recon work for her best friend or for herself .... GL

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    Default Re: How should I answer this ?

    That makes me sad - I've been Beta for so long I guess I was trying to be a "man" thanks for the input

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    Default Re: How should I answer this ?

    I'm sure some of the guys here will disagree with me on that so dont get down on yourself, thats just my little bit of life code
    I've just always believed that you should always try to leave girls in a better place then you found them , granted sticking around would have been tuff because you werent going to change your mind but I think a man should always try to show some compassion ..... just my opinion. FYI .... Keep on eye on Lona,
    would be interested to see if she continues to text you

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    Default Re: How should I answer this ?

    Thanks!!! Any other advice from anyone ???

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    Default Re: How should I answer this ?

    Keep things vague and don't qualify yourself. Dragon has the right idea.
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    Default Re: How should I answer this ?

    Quote Originally Posted by WillEdward View Post
    Keep things vague and don't qualify yourself. Dragon has the right idea.
    Ok this is how She responded

    "Oh good, glad you are well. I'm pretty good. I still have sad days for sure and I still miss jorge, but I have work and friends to keep me busy." ( Jorge, her Ex husband walked out on her over the summer )

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    Default Re: How should I answer this ?

    What is your goal with her? Are you trying to hook up or have something serious with Lona? It sounds like she has some emotional baggage and may be clingy if you don't manage the right expectations.
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    Default Re: How should I answer this ?

    I don't want anything with her - my Ex is already on OK Cupid (so am I lol)I thought she was using her friend to feel me out but I guess I was wrong - it never ceases to amaze me how fast chicks can cut you out of there life


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