Re: GF of 3 Years: Broke up last week, but coming to see me on my Bday
Seems like you're overthinking all this. I know it's hella important to you but you gotta prepare yourself to the possibility that you won't get back together and frankly even if you did, things might not be the same.
I also know how you feel. Leaving someone that you pictured your entire life with... It's hard to leave that behind. But sometimes it's better to start fresh rather than trying to work with something damaged or broken.
So my advice to you is, if you think it's worth it, don't give up. But be prepared for the negative outcome.
It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.
It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.