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    Arrow Ex came back. We farked. Now what

    Alright guys, around a year and a half ago I would post on here trying to get this ex back. She found a new guy and they moved in together. Throughout that time she would check out my Twitter, ask to meet for lunch or invite me over the watch movies at her house behind her boyfriends back. We cut all ccommunication about a year ago. Well I went to a party two weeks ago. She was there. we joked around, like old times. I thought nothing of it because I still believed she was with her bf. so we started to dance, she grabbed my inner thigh, naturally that got me excited.

    we stepped off the dance floor and she told me "you turned me on out there" so I told her she did to. Then she just goes right in and kisses me. I just looked at her when we finished and she said "shouldn't I of done that?" So I leaned in and kissed her. She loved it. After the party we went back to my place and banged it out. I found out that night that her and her boyfriend split a few weeks prior because things got stale


    Fastforward to last week, another party. She was there again. Same thing, we joked around and had a good time. She offered to ride me back to my house with her friend. I get to my house, her friend had to use the bathroom so we all go inside my place. As her friend is using the restroom I told my ex I wanted her to stay, she said "I cant. But let me give you a preview of things to come" and took my hand and shoved it right down her jeans.

    Now gentleman, I'm unsure of what's going on. does she miss me? Want me back or am I a rebound. We had a great sex life when we were together and she brought up all the moves and stuff we used to do both times we fooled around. We no longer have each other's numbers and she still has me blocked on snapchat and Facebook. So what do I do? She works at my local mall so I can always run into her while shopping. Should I try to get numbers exchanged and hang out, see where it goes? Advice?

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    Default Re: Ex came back. We farked. Now what

    Well yeah. It seems she wants something again. Even though for now it seems like she is playing but never mind. Get in touch with her and I am sure that soon you will know what is all about.

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    Default Re: Ex came back. We farked. Now what

    Dang bro, I only wish that could happen with me and the ex I used to post about getting back on here. I actually picture this could happen, but she had a kid with the mf she got with after we broke up so I'd never get back with her. In all honesty if they were still together I'd fuck her just because I want the dude to go through what I did, but then if she dumped him for me I'd tell her it's too late, should of thought about that before you had a kid with the loser. So yeah dude, if she is really done with the guy and doesn't have any "baggage" from the dude then go for it. Though I'd see whether she started sleeping around with other dudes as well first. I had another ex a couple years ago want me back and then she told me about how many guys she slept with since me and I said no thanks.

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    Default Re: Ex came back. We farked. Now what

    You're doing good since you already closed her recently. You should set up plans to see her after you closed her to build more comfort and future project yourself so she feels comfortable seeing you again. Grab her number and set up plans to see her again.
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    Default Re: Ex came back. We farked. Now what

    So im a little confused.

    I text her the other night. I was out for a friend's party and invited her out. I haven't text her in 2 years. She was naturally confused saying "who is this" so when I told her it was me and she should join us out she says "Umm nah i'll pass lol". Her and a few friends of mine went out the next day. She told them I hit her up, she said she "wasn't ready to get back into all of that" and proceeded to flirt with another guy. Texting him with wink faces and calling him boo.

    So naturally i'm confused and semi pissed. Why would she come out of the woodwork into my life after 2 years and grab my junk, lean in and kiss me, make all of these aggressive moves and IOIs just to back away so fast? I haven't text her since that night and I'm hesitant now that I know the intel my friends told me.

    She is still stuck on the lease with her current/late bf/ex. But I found out they are currently sleeping in separate bedrooms in their house. I saw the texts of the dude she was flirting with (another friend of mine) and it got me a little heated.

    What should I do now? Honestly I'm not ready for a relationship and I just want to be friends with her. To start over and see where it goes. Me and her have changed a lot the past two years and I'm afraid she is being reminded of the old beta me that she used to date.

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    Default Re: Ex came back. We farked. Now what

    She's confused she doesn't know what she wants you're her comfort zone but she wants to test the waters. If you come on too strong you'll seem needy.

    Treat her like you would any other friend if you're going to go out invite her out but nothing solo. At least not yet. If she comes out she's out if not oh well her loss.

    Depending on your confidence I think you could go out and bring another girl or hit on other girls see how she reacts my guess is she'll get jealous.

    Do this once then try like something casual during the day like lunch or coffee. Get her alone then try and close her during the day but tell her no we shouldn't be doing this were just friends you don't mean that but saying that will make it seem like it's her idea.

    Honestly I think you're doing great just don't get hung up on your past and don't put her on a pedestal. Good luck.

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    Default Re: Ex came back. We farked. Now what

    A similar scenario happened to me a few weeks ago. My ex texted me that I haven't heard from in 6 months and wanted to hang out and she misses me. A couple days later I went over, I spent the night and we had sex. I know she's seeing other people because there were guys clothes at her place and I called her the next week and heard dudes in the background and she told me it wasn't a good time. This is how I'm handling the situation; I'm not letting it bother me that she's seeing other guys because I don't want to get into a relationship with her again anyways she's an ex for a reason right? I'm looking at it as a friends with benefits relationship that could end at anytime and I'm just enjoying the moment. After she said she'll pass on hanging out with her, DO NOT TEXT HER ANYMORE. She will see it as needy and if you lose contact altogether with her, I bet she will contact you.

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    Default Re: Ex came back. We farked. Now what

    So i'm now extremely confused. I haven't contacted her until yesterday. The reason i waited this long is that i didn't want to seem needy or beta. Went out about a week ago and one of our mutual friends invited her out. We joked for a bit, she had to leave, she gave everyone a friendly hug including me and left.

    So yesterday I text her and asked her if she was working (she works in a shopping complex). I told her I needed to buy another pair of shoes and I asked her if she was there. She told me she was off. I asked her if she wanted to grab a cup of coffee and chat. She did a total 360 and told me that she didn't think it was a good idea and she also didn't think it was a good idea to text her. I was floored. How can all of this happen and she just shut me out like that? I asked her why and she said "just cause". I proceeded to tell her that I'm not making an attempt to get back together, that I've been out of a relationship for a month and there a lot going on in my life. I told her I just wanted to be friends and do this as a friendly outing. she sent me a blush, shocked and neutral faced emoji and I told her to let me know when she is cool to meet up whatever time that is. and left it at that.

    So what the fuck gives guys. Things were going great till now?

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    Default Re: Ex came back. We farked. Now what

    Sounds like she's into another guy and things are getting more serious with him. Women are really horny. She just wanted sex from you because you two have had good sex in the past. She was comfortable with you and knew she would get her rocks off.

    Sometimes ex's will come back for some D but not want anything else. It happens all the time. It makes sense because it's way less risky then hooking up with a stranger.


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