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    OldmemberOfPuA is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Question about NC: What if they contact you?

    I often see, Do NC for 30 days.

    What happens is she contacts you first in between then (but its jusy lukewarm or more like friends.) Not sure how talking to her while shes still in that mode would help your situation.

    I think some girls do that just to wonder if youre still hung up on them.

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    Default Re: Question about NC: What if they contact you?

    Can you clarify a little bit on what situation you're in? Did you two break up, are you in the friendzone?

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    OldmemberOfPuA is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Question about NC: What if they contact you?

    Sure here are the details:

    - Long Distance Relationship of 4 years that she broke off 3 weeks ago
    - She planned to meet up with me last week but she (truthfully) could not visit because of family and a job problem

    She went from ignoring me to initiatin contact. However its just like hi or hello. Nothing playful, positive, funny, etc.



    - Now with NC do we reply when she initiates contact or ignore her? She wont miss you if you talk to her everyday, but if you outright ignore her that may backfire.

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    Default Re: Question about NC: What if they contact you?

    I've never been in a long term relationship so hopefully someone with a little more experience in that can help you out.

    That being said, what I'd do (if you truly had no contact) is to answer to her, there's a chance she regrets breaking things off with you. Then again, don't go out of your way to plan something, I'd wait until she makes plans for the two of you, besides that I'd keep with the NC. Hopefully I helped a bit

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    OldmemberOfPuA is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Question about NC: What if they contact you?

    Idk if it was true no contact. I would call her and leave voicemails.

    I sent her one just now for happy easter. Of course no reply.

    Were supposed to hang out this week. But I dont wanna do that if The Vibe goin into it is weak. Id like to get us talking again but shes hot and then cold

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    Default Re: Question about NC: What if they contact you?

    Quote Originally Posted by OldmemberOfPuA View Post
    Idk if it was true no contact. I would call her and leave voicemails.

    I sent her one just now for happy easter. Of course no reply.
    True No Contact means no calling, no voicemails, no texting. Am I right?

    And when she is trying to initiate contact, don't just jump into it.
    Do replay saying that she should contact you in 2 weeks or so, than you will have time for her.
    Keep it short.
    Good luck!
    I am here to help. You just need to ask.


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