Got Back With My Ex Should I Marry Her
I broke up with my ex 18 months ago. We met in Atlanta. She is Chinese. She moved back to China soon after. I went to China and we started dating long distance. She's maybe a 6 or 7 - although definitely my type she does it for me.
I convinced her to come move back to Atlanta and things weren't so great. I broke up with her.
When we broke up, I started dating other people. Only to realize that I really wanted my ex back.
She started dating another guy to get over me but that was also long distance.
During this break, I started hitting up a 9 in Nashville who is super smart who never seems to want to settle down and by chance was living near-ish for a change. She was still super hard to pin down.
I got a job offer to move to Denver. With that, I realized women are harder to find in Denver and it was best to try to get back with my ex.
One more thing - my ex was the best sex I have ever had. Has anyone ever run into a magic p*ssy. Literally, sex with this Chinese girl was amazing. I have had sex with other Chinese girls and other Asian girls and there is nothing like it. Sex with this girl is crazy. On a scale of 1 to 10, sex with this girl is a 15.
In having sex with other women during the break up, I realized how much I missed the sex with this one so I did everything in my power to get my ex back.
I looked up all the info her online and they stressed that the keys were never bringing up the breakup, escalating again - kissing, having sex. I almost messed it up. I got her to meet up with me again - I got her back to my apartment - and I didn't have sex with her. This was a huge huge mistake. The importance like the literature says of having sex with your ex again cannot be misunderstood.
We went off on some vacations and during that time (I was scoring with several other girls), I scored a date with Nashville girl. She is a 9 in the looks and it was our first date and it went well (despite being internet friends for years). She gave me a quick kiss on the lips at the end of the date.
And then I moved to Denver the next day. I flew back several times to see my ex. On the second trip back, I had sex with my ex. That did seal the deal. I am not good at escalation and sex the first time (or the first time again with a girl) - it is super important. I love the idea of telling a girl to wear a dress for a date when you are going to try to have sex with her the first time. I had sex with my ex on the couch because moving her to the bed would have been a major state break - she felt safer on the couch. And I tickled and pushed forward and fingered her heavily where she was just dying to have sex. The familiarity is something you can take advantage of even if she kept saying we couldn't have sex because she was still with her new long distance boyfriend. From sex that time to skyping every day to sex every trip back - I convinced her to move to Denver and we live together now.
And now a year after she has moved out here, things are petering out a little with my ex. The sex isn't as often or as great. Still pretty good... a 12 on a 1 to 10 scale... but less often. She really wants to get married for her to no longer be here on a school visa. She loves me like crazy 3 weeks a month. She always misses China. And when her period comes - she gets really crazy - jealous of my ex-wife - upset I put my son ahead of her sometimes etc. etc.
And 2 weeks ago, the Nashville girl says she just got in to business school in Denver and is now moving out here (I doubt anything would happen there but ugh... why does this happen).
So... has anyone ever run into magic p*ssy before? Did you give it up and regret it? The sex may get a little better if we get married - but I've been married before, I know how sex can peter out. The mind-blowing sex was always putting her ahead. If things don't work out and we get married in the next 2 months, she is ready to hop on a plane back to China and just live there. (She is 30 years old.)
The 33-year-old 9 moves to town in 2 months. Ugh. And of course, I can go and play the field again which is a fine enough option. I do enjoy being focused on work and just work and having my relationship be somewhat stable but I'd prefer either super hot kids or super hot sex but a middling compromise gets me all worried.
Should I marry my ex who I got back and see how it goes? Would you ever give up magic p*ssy (I have had sex with a lot of people - I know this is crazy good compared to the vast majority of women)? Could I live with myself not chasing Nashville girl (plus other girls) when she is moving to a school that is 7 minutes away from where I live?