Personal issues aside you guys know I know how to Sarge. Say what you want about my methods but I got into this game to get good with chicks because I was on an out with my current situation. Background stories aside I came to this point to have as MM would say "A pick up artist inside my head whenever I needed" granted we all have different versions or opinions on what a Pick Up Artist really is let's just say for the sake of entertainment that I got in this to get what I want and not "based on what other Pick Up Artists are" or even "What Gurus are"
I can't do what Gurus do, go out to numerous cities and Pick Up chicks to hookup with them. But what I can do is my thing. I think we established this yes?
I finally realized....
It's not that I can never get laid!
Many, many, many opportunities have come into my life to "get laid"
My Highschool Sweetheart for example pre-Pick Up.
My Ex-GF Post-Pick-Up
And many more on a whim chances post-Pick Up, but I think the contention is not that I cannot get laid but the factors that I am afraid of commitment, girls trying to get me to settle down, pregnancy, drama, and all the issues that arise.
And what happened with my EX?
She tried to get me to settle!
Not happening. Still to this day she is crying over spilled milk. But a new girlfriend has a emerged onto the scene. No granted this girl is probably only about an HB7 and my last GF was a 9. I am starting to become more attracted to the drama-free or less drama chicks. The factors that my last GF was a HB9 GUYS WERE ALWAYS after her, hitting on her, I had to compete at house parties, drinking events, just about everywhere!! This was daunting and understandable why I gave up but still willing to go the distance on a 10.
I have about 3 good go-to contacts for HB10's who are all kinda sitting on the sidelines watching me. They haven't rejected me just told me to go away for a while so they could have some space. So I did that and disappeared but the contacts are there ready for when I need them and I have a perfect plan for when I will break out the cards and play my hand.
Anyway though about that HB7. This girl I think may be my girlfriend. She hand picked me out at work. Found out who I was without any inside intelligence from me. Then hit me up on IG. Then threw her number in my face. I played the frame thinking this was at first an online scammer, then she said she worked with me so I got kinda rattled then somehow placed it.
So then I guess we hit it off. Like I said my Long Game is perfect. So I put her on hold and she is showing HUGE IOI's like interest level I would say is 100%! Unheard of territory. There is other guys with tattoos there hell there is hardly any reason to like me my IG says "Pick Up Artist" and while she is a follower I ain't changing it.
So this "HB7" must have been digging cuz I found out all this and so now I am texting a girl from work I have never met at work. So then I guess we were texting a lot and I said hi or whatever and she got all stirred up so she started texting me today telling me I looked good, she was creeping on me, she was checking me out, etc. I was feeling the heat cuz girls don't normally behave like this I mean they do but not over text normally. I mean they do but more rare.
Anyway so the HB7 I used my long game in combination with the hold and the "Pick Up Artist" inside my head. I was really just half-assing it when....
HB7: When are you going to hang out with me Jack?!
PUA: No Response
HB7: I saw you just now but you were content so I didn't want to disturb you,
PUA: Ah ha you got me all figured out huh? I'm doing some stuff next month
HB7: Keep me in mind
PUA: Yes I will keep you in mind
So here we have a completely half-assed text scenario (I could text HB7's in my sleep and I promised myself long ago I was going to game only 9's and 10's but just not feeling it lately)
So it was completely half-assed since I am even with the HB9's and outgunned with the HB10's so this was easy for me. Anyway I am not feeling the whole "Dinner and a Movie" thing lately as I feel it is a waste so more of thinking of my dates this year as things like swimming, amusement parks, festivals, etc. There is some of this stuff going down next month so I decided to just hint that I was doing something and this Bait and Switch worked perfectly.
Not only is she eagerly awaiting an unspecified date she is thankful! Because I am merely bringing her into my frame as nothing is going on now but next month stuff is going on. I have already pre-established with her that I want to go to an amusement park with her so she sees me as this fun guy I guess and she keeps begging to hang out. But like the carrot analogy and the anticipation theory I decided the hold needed to be unspecified.
So that is the trouble in China because I realized it is not that I CANNOT get laid. It is that the commitment often times comes with the exchange for sex to happen. What do we see taking place? I know exactly what I see. She is trying to BF me up and I am pretty hard up for sex so I am letting her goat rope me into a relationship. This is how most women are that I meet. For me to have sex with them the relationship must take place.
I wish I could meet HB10 sluts who wanted to get fvcked all day. But I did a guinea pig Field Test and with all my last 3 HB10's told them flat out I wanted to bang the sh!t out of them and they acted like submissive little indecisive girls when I called afraid to talk to me! This is HB10's!
So I usually bone out before things get serious and usually the women promise sex so I don't get bored but they want commitment.
My last GF for example. 3 Months later and I was sleeping in her bed and no other guy could have her but she was always getting hit on. I pushed her away and onto other guys to see what she would do and she came back we made out, but she pawned me off and said go hookup with my friends. So then things got heated and we hung out a lot, talked about moving in together, and she told me that she loved me and wanted me to be with her more often. This is when I hit the panic button and ejected because I think she was trying to LTR me and I wasn't having it. So she was ready to give it up but I was already over it. See I can certainly get laid it is that I choose not to sometimes cuz I am in love with the 10's and always wanting something better.
I like this HB7 because she is obsessed with me and frankly I think the sex would be great cuz she is so crazy and seems like she really wants to make me happy. Sloppy sex is when the connection is poor. But when the connection is good the sex is much better.
So I am not a virgin just not a manwhore.
I met a good girl who has no other guys in the picture, wants me to fully commit to being with her and frankly I game in the Summer so I said hell yes. This will be my 3rd GF in a row during the Summer time period. Last year it was the end of Summer but now it is pre-Summer so this is great.
Now I have a GF and because I know how they love to drag things out I might just run with it. But I am not taking myself out of the game obviously cuz what if she rejects me or stops liking me? This is why I never stop gaming unless things are exclusive.
So obviously while this slow burn with this chick at work is going on, I will still be at the Bars trying to bang 10's. The thing about it is I can be less needy cuz I got this GF on the side to wet my appetite. While my Ex is crying over spilled milk I got her replacement in the works, I still got my wits about me.
This is a massive upheaval I used to have reservations about seeing multiple women and usually thought it was cheating but to only pursue one woman but after being played with BF's behind the scenes while they were trying to hookup with me I merely played them at their own game.
I am not trying to hurt this girl she really really likes me. More than any other girl I have ever seen. Partly because I got tattooed and buff so for her it is like I need to tie this guy down but for me I know breaking her heart would be breaking up with her. Anyway not planning on all that but what she doesn't know won't hurt her and I will still be playing chicks on the side. Anyway this is a great start to the year my best start ever. My GF's usually come at the end of the Summer but to be hand picked at work by some little hottie that's pretty empowering! So I know how to play it. Keep her happy but don't let on that I am picking up with other chicks by rubbing it in her face.
I mean she ain't the boss of me until she says so. This is why my EX GF never got mad at me for picking up on other chicks and encouraged it. It is how you play them and how they get lead on. For instance this chick has less distractions so the relationship is going to be more intimate because my EX always had to be isolated and a million friends and things going on. Now my new GF is on the way I can tell it will be more isolated dates as in me leading the interactions and plans.
I love this.
I get to take her with me ALONE to some place, get a hotel for the night, then take it from there.
Where as everything with my EX was a group fvcking date no hotels about it. I live with my Mom so I rely on more of an adventure date to get the lay. This will still be a relationship but just saying how our first date will be. This is why I am excited for some alone time and even though she is an HB7 I would rather have an HB7 all to myself for an entire day than to hang out with my EX on all these group dates, and group settings every fvcking second except for at night in bed, like no ALL DAY ALONE time none. I will enjoy this new chapter in my life. Will still try to bang 10's and all that so don't worry.
Being buff and tattoed is what I call my secret weapon. But it comes at a price. I got tattooed and buffed up after getting into Pick Up mind you. So I used to go out and beg for 6's and 7's to GIVE ME their number. Now I have HB7's tracking me down at work and because my value is so high I have little interest but keep it alive for the sport in it and the conquest but also getting hit on by 10's when I go out to the Bars geez. My body is doing so much work for me. I have only done 2 cold approaches this year and already have a 3 HB10 numbers, a HB7 GF who completely came to me. I mean I have been hit on 17 times this year that is a record. Only 3 times last year but I didn't finish my sleeve till end of Summer. The 10's are even telling me the tattoos make more attractive and make me approachable.
I guess the challenge will be to see how many times I get hit on by 10's by merely showing up to Bars. I mean girls used to ignore me at the Bar Year 1. My value is just so dang high I merely show up to the Bar and things happen. I merely show up to work and things happen. I merely take my shirt off at a outdoor event and things happen. The 3 HB10 numbers all came from these women coming up to me at the Bar and me merely activating my Pick Up senses. Will be interesting to see how this year turns out!
Most certainly surprised I never liked my HB9 EX GF. I read her pretty well and I like this HB7 because she validates me constantly. My EX never validated me hardly and was harsh but then was an open book post-break up.