Re: Making sense of it all, opinions?
If you are planning to freeze her out, I wouldn't meet up with her on Thursday to sort things out ..... put some space between you guys. I think it's important when stuff like this happens to not be phased by it even though it may bother the shit out of you, the idea is to not let her know that it bothers you, becase you are a guy who has his shit together, you have other options, and you are not going to sweat the let's just be friends card.
A while back somebody wrote this about a similiar situation that I thought was interesting and something to think about
"Look, I really like you. I want to know what you're favorite foods are, I want to know what it feels like to wake up next to you every morning, I want to meet your parents and have them fall in love with me, I want to be able to call you and just go on late night adventures with you. I WANT to kiss you from head to toe, and know what turns you on. I WANT to know what makes you sopping wet, and I WANT to date you and see where it leads to. We could be perfect for each other, Do you want to just let me go not knowing if I could be the greatest thing to ever happen to you? Your possible soul-mate? If you don't want that, then I understand, but we can't be friends anymore. I just can't do that, so I'm walking away forever.
"The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet