Hi everyone. I pulled this amazing girl from Okcupid about 5 months ago. Conversation went brilliantly and it felt like we knew each other straight away. I should however recognized all the signs of a textbook rebound. She left a 4 year relationship 2 months before we met. Please read though...
She was head over heels for me quickly. We text everyday for the majority of our 5 month relationship. She was always keen.
Towards the end of the relationship she called me out the blue for a 121. She said she almost had a panic attack at work and realized that this relationship was actually turning serious and she wasn't sure if she was ready etc. I brought it around brilliantly and said we don't have to move so quickly etc...things were back on track.
Had sex twice since then, things seemed great. We then went out for food, laughed etc and left on a positive note. I then didn't hear from her for a week! The following texts then proceeded:
Me: Well Miss XXX..... you have been awfully quiet for a change
How has your week been? Have you set off on your mini travels yet? x
Her: She then replied saying I'm a nice lad but she doesn't see us being together, all the best (Seemed like someone else typed it as was kind of blunt and 3rd person. Her next text showed truer emotion)
Me: XXX I'm lost for words....I guess there's no reasoning or emotion with text. Thank you for your honesty. You are one of the most respectable people I've ever had the pleasure of dating, but you've got to do what makes you happy.
It would be a lie to say that I haven't got feelings for you. You're great company XXX. The loss is all mine I'm sure.
Her: I'm sorry XX, I really am.....I know I will regret this and I think it's my loss more than yours...but I really need to clear my head first and it's not fair that I keep leading you on....you deserve someone so much better than me.
Me: I basically then replied that she is an intelligent girl and I hope that one day her emotions catch up with the strength of her intelligence, Goodbye.
Now surprisingly I haven't gone over emotional regarding this one. So from an objective perspective, it's now been 3 weeks of no contact. Should I contact her? If so what should I say and at what point?