I was dating this girl for about a year. Things got too comfortable and then i ended up dumping her. A few weeks after i got rid of her we started talking again and we have seeing each other here and there. Over the last few months we would hang out, f***, kinda like when we were dating.
I bumped into her at a club recently and we started dancing and ended up hooking up and asked her to grab a drink later in the week - she said yes. This is the convo below. Keep in mind were not dating, we were trying to work back towards relationship.
Me - Bellissima!... I got this great place I wanna take you to.
Me - What night are you free?
Her- Hi. It's not a good idea. I'm going to be honest with you I don't have the same feelings for you as you do for me. I know you said all this stuff to me about trying to make it work again but in my heart it's just not there. You're a great guy and we had a lot of fun but I can't force myself to have those feelings back it doesn't work like that. I tried. You gave me my space and I thought it'd help us but it didn't I'm sorry.
What is the best way to reply to this for her to understand that I'm cool with her decision and I'm moving forward in my life? Hope we can still be friends? Should I even bother replying? What are your thoughts?
Appreciate the advice in advance and I look forward to getting a lot out of this site!