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Thread: Replying to Ex-Girlfirend ending chances at getting back together

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    Default Replying to Ex-Girlfirend ending chances at getting back together

    Hey Guys,

    I was dating this girl for about a year. Things got too comfortable and then i ended up dumping her. A few weeks after i got rid of her we started talking again and we have seeing each other here and there. Over the last few months we would hang out, f***, kinda like when we were dating.

    I bumped into her at a club recently and we started dancing and ended up hooking up and asked her to grab a drink later in the week - she said yes. This is the convo below. Keep in mind were not dating, we were trying to work back towards relationship.

    Me - Bellissima!... I got this great place I wanna take you to.
    Me - What night are you free?
    Her- Hi. It's not a good idea. I'm going to be honest with you I don't have the same feelings for you as you do for me. I know you said all this stuff to me about trying to make it work again but in my heart it's just not there. You're a great guy and we had a lot of fun but I can't force myself to have those feelings back it doesn't work like that. I tried. You gave me my space and I thought it'd help us but it didn't I'm sorry.

    What is the best way to reply to this for her to understand that I'm cool with her decision and I'm moving forward in my life? Hope we can still be friends? Should I even bother replying? What are your thoughts?

    Appreciate the advice in advance and I look forward to getting a lot out of this site!

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    Default Re: Replying to Ex-Girlfirend ending chances at getting back together

    I should also mention that I only liked/ attracted to this girl on a sexual level. I had no connection with her on a intellectual or emotional level. She's a party girl and I'm not that kind of guy.

    This relationship is definately done for good but I want to end it on good terms and show her that what she said doesn't impact me because I don't like her THAT much. Any guidance regarding the best way to respond (if at all) would be greatly appreciated.

    Really look forward to getting more involved in the site and all the information it has to offer ! Thanks guys

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    Default Re: Replying to Ex-Girlfirend ending chances at getting back together

    How does this sound? I know this girl is not the one for me so I want to have a final word. I settle and got comfortable - bad mistake. See below.

    Hi Jane. I appreciate you being honest with me. Your a beautiful girl and I am attracted to you sexually but I haven't felt any connection with you on an emotional or intellectual level. We are at different places in our lives & like I said before, im moving forward in mine. I'm glad we gave it a shot and im happy I can call you a friend. .


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