Ok guys, so it's been awhile and I thought I'd come back for advice. If anyone on here can remember about a year and a half ago I was posting about getting an ex back (and posted to others advice as to why they shouldn't go after the ex based on experience with her). Well, I've said in other topics her and the guy she hopped to a week after me had a kid back in December. With that, I've had little insights on her relationship simply cause I still had ties to her family. I did work for her step-dad, I went to school with her step-brother and little brother and I hung out with her cousin (because we had common friends). So pretty much for most of the time since the break up she had me blocked and about 3 months ago I noticed the pictures she took of herself and tagged me in on Facebook came back in my profile and saw she unblocked me, but she was still with the guy. A month or so ago I was doing work with her step dad and he was telling me about how she complains about him all the time blah blah blah and I just thought it was ironic and quite funny.
Well, I decided to venture and check on her Facebook and I can't see her statuses but I can see what others post on her wall and it all has to do with "blah blah blah don't look for happiness in relationships, find it in yourself blah blah blah" so I checked her relationship status and it says single. So they broke up and it appears she blocked him because on his wall he has pictures of him and the kid and tagged everybody there but her (but typed her nickname). So it appears they are done and the ties they have are the kid.
Now this was my first "young love" if you will and thats why I took so much interest. I've long moved on and had another 6 month thing with another girl that didn't work out and several one night stands and such since then. I'm not looking to get back with her, I just want to be able to talk to her again and maybe fuck again (shes crazy hot). Yeah I might have some emotions but I think logically enough that I want nothing to do with the kid she made with the loser so we can never be a couple again. Heres my dilemma though, I get the feeling she tries to label me as a stalker even though I haven't spoken to her in a year and a half so I'm kinda worried she'll think that if I add her. Her family says she don't really talk shit about me besides telling about things that happened in our relationship, but you know they are her family and might sugar coat it so I don't get pissed off. I don't really want to talk to them about it cause I don't want to make them think I want to get back with her. I'm just wondering guys if I should add her for the goal I have stated above. Thanks guys.