I was dating a girl for 2 and a half years and things were great for a long time but by the end of our relationship "the excitement fizzled away", in her words. I ended up leaving her and the break up wasn't too bad because we both knew it was coming. I went over a month without contacting her at all and last week sent her a text and we talked for a bit and she actually asked me over that night to have a coffee. During this time she mentioned a few times that she definitely didn't want a relationship but never mentioned anything about us just being friends.
I'm wondering what you guys would think is my best way to get her back to wanting to be in a relationship.
Should I tell her how I feel and just walk away if that's not what she wants?
Or should I play the game and text her now and then and hang out occasionally working towards reigniting that spark?
Any help would be awesome