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    Default I fuc*ed up so bad

    Hey guys,

    I got in trouble with my "ex" girlfriend...but I do not even know if she was actually my girlfriend.

    I'll try to tell you the whole story (even if it complicated) being as short as I can.

    Me and this girl come from the same city, but we were never "friend" before (for me it was the classic acquaintance you see on the street and say "hi" but nothing more). Once at a campus party, we met and I slept at her place (we did "everything" but sex)...we went to a couple of dates the days later where we kissed, then he told me she wanted to come to my place to chill during the weekend (which was like the day after)...so I told a friend of mine that we had sex (even if we did not, I knew we would have had sex one or two days later)...but then something happened...she started seeing another guy and we argued. I have not seen her since that day (6 months ago). But here come the problems:
    Apparently my friend told a bunch of people that I and this girl had sex, and she, a couple of weeks ago found it out. She was mad and called me, but I was able to convince her that I did not say any of that stuff...so she said sorry and felt regretful for the call, she even wrote me a text a couple of hours later telling me she was sorry.

    Then last week, I received some weird texts from her telling me I was an asshole and she hated me...but then she texted me that those messages were not for me (I assumed they were for his bf, since they hadn't posted any "love" stuff on facebook and instagram for a week or so, even if they used to do it almost every day)...the weird thing is that my name and her bf name are sooo far from one another on her contact list (assuming she saved us with our names), so I do not know how she could get confused.

    And this is where I need your help: I was never, and I will never, be one of those guys that lie about sex with girls (I hate them!), but this time, I was so sure we would have had sex in one or 2 days, that I told my friend we already did...what an idiot I was!

    So now I need to win her back and sleep with her in order not to seem a liar.

    What would you recommend me to do? I know she is not angry with me and she believes I did not say anything to anyone about "sex", so I do not need to say sorry or stuff like that, because she considers me a good guy

    What would you do? She is a 9 and I really like her...
    DUCA: Titolo nobiliare che nella gerarchia araldica segue quello di principe
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    DUKE: A duke can either be a monarch ruling over a duchy or a member of the nobility, historically of highest rank below the monarch

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    Default Re: I fuc*ed up so bad

    Is there someone out there that can help me?

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    Default Re: I fuc*ed up so bad

    Hey Duca, what you've done is very incongruent compared to my beliefs but yet.. here's my advice for you

    Don't try to sabotage their relationship just for the sole purpose of not being seen as a liar, they're 6months in the relationship, why would you even consider ruining their chances together just to f... her and not lose social value between your friends, what I would have done if anyone would have asked me if I actually slept with a girl or not I'd just smile and say "I'll leave it to your imagination" doesn't matter if I actually did or did not hit it.

    You talk about her as if you need something from her which in your situation is - sex, that will probably show a lot on your outter energy, don't just act like it, but think like it aswell, you are just trying to see how well things would work out with her, if you could even maintain a friendship with her - set a goal for yourself become her friend, work under the radar using what ever methods you like for A&C building, use bf destroyers (look them up on this site), Kino escalate, use false disqualifiers.

    Another thing - you lied to your friends about having sex with her, you lied to her about how you "didn't tell them that", that is the path you've chosen - stick to it, yes your friends can easily find out you lied but you're obviously a good liar - you'll think of something clever to not lose your social value, come clean if you must (with your friends), but with her - stick to your story because if you come clean she will not only feel anger towards you, but she will also know why you are still hanging out with her.

    but seriously man, if your only intention is to sleep with her.. don't be such an asshole - don't ruin their relationship, unless you intend to keep her and you know that you'd do a better job at making her happy than he ever did.

    Cheers.

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    Default Re: I fuc*ed up so bad

    Thanks for the advices,

    I don't really know how much I like her or how much I can give to her. When we slept together I thought she could be the perfect girlfriend, but after seeing how she behaved when we were dating (she was dating the other guy at the same time, knowing we were friends) I don't really know anymore.

    I just can't distinguish wherever I wanna meet her again just to have sex or to have a relationship...

    I will try to clear my mind, but in the meantime I will look at some bf destroyer on the forum
    DUCA: Titolo nobiliare che nella gerarchia araldica segue quello di principe
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    DUKE: A duke can either be a monarch ruling over a duchy or a member of the nobility, historically of highest rank below the monarch


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