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    Default Re: Going for it with the magic letter

    Quote Originally Posted by sr0d View Post
    Yea I sent a couple of text since last night with no response and gave her a call. Went to vmail after 3 rings like she did it on purpose...feel like I'm blowing up her phone so I'm not going to send another today. Before I went to bed I sent a text that said I was glad that she opened up to me at lunch and appreciated she put her guard down. I did something debatable though and I'm thinking this was a bad call. I pretty much said that I didn't ask if she even wanted me to pursue more than a friendship and if not then I would back away and not force it on her if her heart isn't in it. I tried to do that whole "fear of loss" thing. If anything maybe it gave her something to think about. IDK...bad call maybe? Maybe it sounded too needy?

    Ugh for anyone else reading this...guys think twice about going back with your girl. I feel like I'm back to feeling the anxiety and angst as before. Life would've been simpler but damnit I'm a junkie for those endorphines. I wish there was a drug you can just take to erase someone from your feelings.
    Same boat my friend (: its not easy getting over someone unless you weren't Invested (A lot)

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    Default Re: Going for it with the magic letter

    Alright she completely stone walled me. No response to any of my text messages until yesterday when I said lets be friends and smoke a hookah. o we agreed to hang out tonight at my place and smoke a hookah. I'll tell you right now she is going to cancel. This is the part that can drive a man crazy...is she seeing someone or is she just trying to shit test (probably both)....lol.

    I got another girl coming over for dinner to watch the game. But I will need to shew her out at 10. It'll be an interesting evening nonetheless.

    PS. I hope you guys don't mind that I am documenting my progress. I think its helpful for a forum like this cuz then you guys to learn from my misery. So far lesson is think twice about getting back with an X. She will shit test you and this is actually the hardest part and finally if you are going to reach out truly do it as a friend. Don't try to move into relationship mode right away. I think that scared her off a bit.

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    Default Re: Going for it with the magic letter

    Final update:

    So we were suppose to hang out last night and of course still short on the text messages. It got late but per her last text she was still coming over. I finally give her a call...no aswer then maybe 3 minutes later i get a call from her number. Its a guy asking what I wanted. I told him I was looking for pricilla and we were suppose to hang out. He sounded surprised...lol. We are both being played. Anyway she calls a few mins later asking me to tell him that we were only friends...blah blah. I was cool and calm and said something to the effect that yes but that we've been fucking too. Haha I think I was on speaker because there was a gasp in the background...lol. So I hung up and then blocked the number.

    In short, guys AGAIN THINK BEFORE GOING BACK AFTER YOUR EX. Ask yourself is it worth the time and energy. There are so many girls out there. I wasted alot of time researching, finding the magic letter, posting up here, etc. I am grateful for the lessons learned though. This is definitely an experience that I will remember and build on.

    On a good note....I ended up banging the girl I had over to watch football and dinner. Smoking body (even better than this last one) but the face not so much...lol. Body is a 10 Face maybe a 4.

    Signing off...thanks again for the feedback and those who have been watching this thread.
    SROD

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    Default Re: Going for it with the magic letter

    Quote Originally Posted by sr0d View Post
    Final update:

    So we were suppose to hang out last night and of course still short on the text messages. It got late but per her last text she was still coming over. I finally give her a call...no aswer then maybe 3 minutes later i get a call from her number. Its a guy asking what I wanted. I told him I was looking for pricilla and we were suppose to hang out. He sounded surprised...lol. We are both being played. Anyway she calls a few mins later asking me to tell him that we were only friends...blah blah. I was cool and calm and said something to the effect that yes but that we've been fucking too. Haha I think I was on speaker because there was a gasp in the background...lol. So I hung up and then blocked the number.

    In short, guys AGAIN THINK BEFORE GOING BACK AFTER YOUR EX. Ask yourself is it worth the time and energy. There are so many girls out there. I wasted alot of time researching, finding the magic letter, posting up here, etc. I am grateful for the lessons learned though. This is definitely an experience that I will remember and build on.

    On a good note....I ended up banging the girl I had over to watch football and dinner. Smoking body (even better than this last one) but the face not so much...lol. Body is a 10 Face maybe a 4.

    Signing off...thanks again for the feedback and those who have been watching this thread.
    SROD

    Awesome to hear you're doing great! There are girls you are meant to be with, some not.
    in my case i've been with a few, currently chasing a girl. lets see if its worth it at all. (probably not)
    Good luck (:


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