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Thread: Any advice?-- trying to win EX GF back

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    Question Any advice?-- trying to win EX GF back

    me and my ex dated for a year and a half. she broke up with me about 4 months ago because she said she lost feelings for me and i was too controlling and annoying. We both lost our virginity to each other. Towards the end of the relationship i could tell she was acting different towards me. Since being broken up i have repeatedly dlv and haven't been able to do NC more than two weeks and I end up breaking it every time because I miss her or she contacts me saying something like "Hey just want to see how everything is going" and i give in. We followed each other on social media a couple weeks ago and I'm guessing she was drunk, but she liked 20 of my photos in a row one night.

    A week ago she texted me and we started talking and she ended up telling me how she had sex with a guy at her school and how awesome it was. I told her I was disappointed cus i thought she valued herself and wouldn't sleep with a guy unless she liked him. He must've had really good game because he closed the deal on her in one night. I ended the convo telling her she wasn't the person I thought she was and that I don't care to hear from her again. Every time we talk we end up fighting and she always says "I don't know why i keep giving you so many chances". Im so confused at this point as to what she means by giving me chances.

    Anyway, I can't stop thinking about her and I don't know what to do. I miss her a lot and want her back but she told me she has already moved on and doesn't ever want a relationship with me again. Is there any hope? and if so, how do i win her back? Thanks.

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    Default Re: Any advice?-- trying to win EX GF back

    I think you should move on...just like she did. Apparently you are obsessed with her, which isn't good btw.

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    Default Re: Any advice?-- trying to win EX GF back

    I get what you're saying. Im not obsessed just every time I start to forget about her she texts me or tries to contact me. I don't get why the hell she is doing it. Its like one big mind game. She will say she never wants to talk to me, then will hit me up a week later or like my photos. Maybe she just likes dragging me along? Im just confused and would like to try to get her back if possible. Don't really know if its worth it tho. Im in college and can't even enjoy it cus I'm shy too and all the dimes in the frats are all surrounded by guys or have a boyfriend. Im a good looking guy and am always told that, but I have no game unless I'm hammered and can never close. If i could start getting laid in college then I wouldn't care about trying to get my ex back.

    My ex was a cool girl and we connected well, but i think its been harder for me to move on because she was the outgoing one and i was always more reserved. If she does hit me up again while i do NC, should I just ignore her or act indifferent to anything she says? Trying to get back with her or at least get it so we can still hook up on breaks. Also any advice for college game would help a lot, specifically in frats during parties.
    Thanks

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    Default Re: Any advice?-- trying to win EX GF back

    Quote Originally Posted by Andrew216 View Post
    I get what you're saying. Im not obsessed just every time I start to forget about her she texts me or tries to contact me. I don't get why the hell she is doing it. Its like one big mind game. She will say she never wants to talk to me, then will hit me up a week later or like my photos. Maybe she just likes dragging me along?
    If other people can drag you along and you let them, who's fault is this? The fact is you can't make a decision because you are afraid that you won't get any other girl after her. This is a needy Mindset IMO. I am not saying that if you leave her you're get a new girl by magic. You might be lonely and struggle for some time but moving on would be right thing to do. We all have made sacrifices and suffered pain. You should be willing to suffer yours.

    Quote Originally Posted by Andrew216 View Post
    Im in college and can't even enjoy it cus I'm shy too and all the dimes in the frats are all surrounded by guys or have a boyfriend. Im a good looking guy and am always told that, but I have no game unless I'm hammered and can never close. If i could start getting laid in college then I wouldn't care about trying to get my ex back.
    So you've basically just accepted what I said before. You are afraid that you won't get any other girl.

    Well if you are in college, there might be a lot of opportunities. Not all guys are bfs. And not all are cock blocks. In fact if you approach them correctly, you'll see that they are often very friendly. Read the Mystery's Group Theory or google how to approach Mixed Sets.

    Alternatively, join some club or society so that you can become one of those 'guys' who are with girls.. and then try to game from there. Honestly college has unlimited opportunities of girls.. you just cant see atm. Remove this barrier of limiting belief and you'll see how much opportunites you have.

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    Default Re: Any advice?-- trying to win EX GF back

    You should bitch slapped. SLAP! Sure she gave it so fast because you bored the fuck out of her. The guy had no game. Just compared to what she had any dude would have said to her lets fuck and she would it . She said she loved it !

    This means she LOVED his cock and how well he fucked . I think he also cummed on her face.

    Do you see where I am going?

    YOU want her back. You must develop in you that MASCULINE animal side.

    Start going out and get a bitch of your own.

    Telling your girl you are dissapointed,,,MEANS SHIT

    She has no respect for you.

    Go get some girls and get some real sex experiance and when can stop feeling sorry for your self get your girl back ONLY THEN. BTw fuck her in the ass as punishment.

    I deliver it raw!

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    Default Re: Any advice?-- trying to win EX GF back

    Quote Originally Posted by Andrew216 View Post
    me and my ex dated for a year and a half. she broke up with me about 4 months ago because she said she lost feelings for me and i was too controlling and annoying. We both lost our virginity to each other. Towards the end of the relationship i could tell she was acting different towards me. Since being broken up i have repeatedly dlv and haven't been able to do NC more than two weeks and I end up breaking it every time because I miss her or she contacts me saying something like "Hey just want to see how everything is going" and i give in. We followed each other on social media a couple weeks ago and I'm guessing she was drunk, but she liked 20 of my photos in a row one night.

    A week ago she texted me and we started talking and she ended up telling me how she had sex with a guy at her school and how awesome it was. I told her I was disappointed cus i thought she valued herself and wouldn't sleep with a guy unless she liked him. He must've had really good game because he closed the deal on her in one night. I ended the convo telling her she wasn't the person I thought she was and that I don't care to hear from her again. Every time we talk we end up fighting and she always says "I don't know why i keep giving you so many chances". Im so confused at this point as to what she means by giving me chances.

    Anyway, I can't stop thinking about her and I don't know what to do. I miss her a lot and want her back but she told me she has already moved on and doesn't ever want a relationship with me again. Is there any hope? and if so, how do i win her back? Thanks.
    Even tho you went no contact and screwed it up...she reached out for you probably but u ended up texting, talking on the phone instead of inviting her over your place. Whenever she reaches out, she misses you, she wants to see you. If she says "no/not sure/blablaa" say "okay lets get back to it when you figure it out when you are free".Then no contact again, she has to pursue you not vica versa, especially after she dumped you once. If she is flaky for the 2nd time too about dating, dont ask her out again. Her attraction level isnt that high enough to say yes and remember you dont want to be around her all day chatting like a male girlfriend. You wanna fuck her brain out but if she is not willing to at the moment you'll go get another women who is, and she can reach out for you if she changes her mind. Biggest negotiating point is willingness to walk away and mean it.
    Thats your healthy Mindset as a busy man who has lot of options.


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