Re: Have been needy, now what ?
You are better then her. period.
You do not want to be in a relationship with a girl that needs other males attention. In the next two months you will be far better then you were.
I know break ups are scary when you are the one who is attached, Find something that occupies your time, do a martial art, lift weights or do absolutely anything. Try the things you always wanted to try and have fun.
Then find other women to talk to. She will realize what she lost when you have proven you don't need her anymore, girls don't want what they already have, show her that you do not need her and she will most likely start to have all the feels.
Do not give a woman the power of owning you if she is willing to break your heart. Make her want you by showing disinterest.
Also realise you have the potential of greatness and understand that statistics show that there are more women on earth then men and even more available women then men on earth with gay to lesbian rations and prison populations mostly being male aswell as military, police etc.
Statistically you have the advantage.
Her loss. Not yours.
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.