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    Default Should I want my ex wife back?

    11 years of relationship and two kids. These are the reasons I could still want her back.
    Last three years were not that good. In the last one he met this guy at the office and started to work late hours. From august I got they were emotionally engaged and she said we should take a sex break for a month to see if there are still feelings among us.
    I became very nice to her and unfortunately needy. She said she would like that to happen earlier. But at the same time they engaged sexually and I was aware of this. We got divorced but still living and had sex.
    Until the middle of November when I said her it's case she moves out. Unfortunately after I posted some shameful messages on FB and she deleted her account.

    We still meet weekly as we swap kids and text maybe daily. I tried to keep texting kids related. Occasionally there's still Tension between us.

    Now that is more than a month I feel quite well. The only thing that could get me to want her are the kids, still young 3 and 7 years.

    What should I do to make her want me? I still have to think if I want her. ...

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    Default Re: Should I want my ex wife back?

    You have some soul searching to do my man. Think about if this relationship really is something you want, and is healthy for both of you... or if it will end up in the same position before. If you are both willing to put in 100% effort, there's no reason it can't work... but understand the likelihood is somewhat slim.

    That being said, think about why you really want her? Is it for the kids? Do you think there are better ways to deal with the issue with the children, or is this the only thing that can really help them? Additionally, do you think they'd be raised in a healthier household with two parents that are fighting each other? Or separate households where each party is content? Or do you really have high hopes that you won't go down that road again? These are all self reflections you have to worry about.

    Don't try to force a marriage on someone because of the children. There are plenty of kids that do very well with divorced parents, but they require more aid and attention, which is harder amongst divorced parents.

    I wish you luck man. If you can get this to work again, and you are both 100% certain, yes.. you should go back for it. But if there is any doubt... be very careful. Another divorce could harm and confuse these children even more than the first one.


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