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    Default Really tricky situation

    Hi everyone,

    I met an ex girl after 2 years no contact. We had a drink together talking about our respective lives.
    We spent a great evening and I had the feeling she was reconsidering us by asking a lot of questions regarding what I wanted in the future for myself...
    She told me too she has a boyfriend and was asking advices.
    I know she has a boyfriend but I have the feeling she wants something more.

    Since I saw her it was almost 3 weeks now, i know she is on holiday,I was wondering if I have to wait for her to initiate contact or if i have to do it?I did not get in touch at all even during the end of the year celebrations...

    What is women behaviour when they want you back knowing they have a boyfriend? Have you ever experienced something like that ?


    thanks

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    Default Re: Really tricky situation

    Well what DO you want with your future? Would you be a better long-term mate than her current boyfriend? Do you know this for a fact? Can you improve yourself so that you are?

    What is "something more" than a boyfriend? Kids?

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    Default Re: Really tricky situation

    My future... Wife and kids... She thinking about that too.
    Better than her boyfriend for sure I don t know... But he lacks something I have otherwise she would not bother seeing me again and making subtle compliments to me...

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    Default Re: Really tricky situation

    Quote Originally Posted by aussie View Post
    My future... Wife and kids... She thinking about that too.
    Better than her boyfriend for sure I don t know... But he lacks something I have otherwise she would not bother seeing me again and making subtle compliments to me...
    So you want to marry her and have kids with her and you are going to sit around and wait to see if she contacts you?

    I don't think that's a good idea. I think you should be proactive about this.

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    Default Re: Really tricky situation

    Do you reckon I should go ahead and send her a text then?
    Have you ever been in this situation ?

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    Default Re: Really tricky situation

    Quote Originally Posted by aussie View Post
    Do you reckon I should go ahead and send her a text then?
    Have you ever been in this situation ?
    If it's that important to you...

    Send her a text. Make it well thought out, not just "hi,"...

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    Default Re: Really tricky situation

    Thanks for your advice... As everyone is talking about NC I thought to do it this way.. But the best is to make her feel I m still in..

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    Default Re: Really tricky situation

    Quote Originally Posted by aussie View Post
    Thanks for your advice... As everyone is talking about NC I thought to do it this way.. But the best is to make her feel I m still in..
    In all honesty, she probably knows that.


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