Ill try keep this succinct:
Background: Im trying to get my ex of 6 months back after 4 months apart (pretty sure she has a new man now though). We’ve seen each other twice since we split and not for about 5 weeks but still swap texts almost everyday, though nothing too flirtatious these days but have talked about catching up casually for a couple of weeks.
Last night she was going out with a GF and asked me about a posture issue shes having (im a sports scientist/strength coach). I waited til she would have been with her GF and called her (may as well give them a reason to talk about me). She didn’t answer, so I text “off for a swim with a friend, Ill text you in more detail later”, which I did.
This morning shes text a reply of 3 pics of her in bras and panties to point out the issue. Nothing too exciting, she takes them every month to track progress. Now my question is what do I reply? I know shes really insecure about her body. I can just ignore them, act like I don’t care and keep my reply professional… or I can give her a light compliment like “I thought you said your physique was “yuck” these days?” Its Wed here in Australia and 5 hours since I got them – should I wait until I think shes going to be with the new guy ie. Fri night or Sat morning? Be a shame if he found out we were still texting haha… Though I am considering asking her to come for a hike Sunday