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    Default How do i handle this?

    I pissed off a girl and went NO CONTACT.
    She texted me today
    I am meeting her to talk tomorrow.
    I would like to have some advice on how to handle the situation
    really.. I do believe I am going to move in with her. It might not be the thing to do, but i wont know until I try. I have been sitting here alone for too long, I want some action in my life. with that said, I would really like some advice on how to handle this situation so she doesn't have all the power.
    I want her as a friend. I want to move to the city and make music with her?
    Should i say.. i've said my peace and make her talk?
    Should i set the conditions of the place for the first few moths if she only wants friends?
    I do need to get over her to be just friends but i don't want to loose her as she was a great friend before. I will push for a relationship, thats why I would like some advice. thanks
    Thanks for the help

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    marvilo is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: How do i handle this?

    You're the man.. You're suppose to tell her what you want . own your words , if she just wants to be friends and you want that too then you should hang in there , if that's not what you want then move on with your life. Don't try to push for something that both parties don't want. It has to be mutual. And apologize for what you did wrong if that's what is needed
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: How do i handle this?

    i dont really understand what you want aswell

    I will push for a relationship, thats why I would like some advice.
    but this might be your true intention after all the bs if i get it right. hang out, have a good time with her, arrange a meeting if she reaches out for you (like now) and ofcourse in the night time in a bar with some booze, if you have bigger balls and strong game then invite her over to your place right away if you had already sex before, tell her pick a bottle of wine and youll handle the food. apologize if you feel that way like a man but just be playful with her, dont watn a miserable day do you where you both are crying about the past?

    what pissed her of you did?

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    Default Re: How do i handle this?

    When we were only friends, we planned to move in together 1st of feb. Then we fell for each other, sex all the time, always together. I became weak and needy, she back away, said she wanted t be friends. I didn't think I could handle living with her when i was in love with her so i backed out at the last minute. I feel bad cause she waited for me for 2 months sleeping on her friends floor but damn I became too attached. Now, I dont know what to do, I can keep my apartment for 3 months and see where it goes or i could stay at my friends place to see what happens. I normally would say i want more than friends or Ill walk.,. thing is, i so want her as a friend cause we were good friends before and it ws badass. i just need time to get over her. But.. i want to get the relationship if I can salvage it so basically, i would like to know how to handle the situation..

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    Default Re: How do i handle this?

    well the no contact is indeed working. and its for both parties, your needy behavior will slowly fade away and her bad memories about you aswell. i think its good for both of you even if you wont be together ever. be polite and friendly to her ofcourse if you run into her, dont talk about your past. about the apartment do what is good for you, not for her. its your life, you are the first not her or anyone else in your life.

    oh and date other women. that helps a bit and if you communicate subtly shell be jealous


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