Re: Help me figure out the right route to take
Mate, You need to discuss each others situation, See what she wants, what you want etc.
But First say
"Hey Steff, I know you wanted space to deal with what happened and I've tried to respect that by giving you a week which I have used to catch up with friends and family, I understand that you may of seen me having fun which was super selfish of me because of what you are going through, for that i appolagise. But we have been together for a year now and I cant help but wonder how you are going?, What have you been up to? Would you mind if I called you to catch up? "
If she says ˙es"
"Hey Steff, I know you are going through a lot right now and that's why I have retreated and have used the time to catch up with friends and family, we did say we were on a break, not broken up. Obviously you needed space but its been a week and although i'm being selfish about what I want to know rather then your situation i'm starting to question our situation from your perspective. So I just want to ask you, What do you want out of us? Are we still together?/on break?/Broken up?"
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.