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  1. #1
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    Default Dont know what route to take with this situation...

    So I met this girl online about 10 months ago. After talkin for about 5 months, we decided to try a long distance relationship. I had never been in one before and neither had she, but her attitude and personality were amazing. When we first started talking it was just a text here n there and gradually became more frequent to the point we would text and call eachither several times a day during our spare time. We just both enjoyed eachothers companionship. I've studied PUA a bit and know that it works, but i dont like to employ some of the stuff in a relationship cause i just feel like it creates a state where 2 people are just gaming eachother, and i like to be straight up and t4ansparent about everything, its just me. Thing is also, i have a 6 year old daughter and dont want to be involved with multiple women who i just bang. Im really wanting to settle down with a good girl. This girl feels the same way, she has a 18 month old son.

    Anyways, she was really into me for the first few months and the feeling was awesome, no complaints, but i noticed dudes always hitting on her on social media. Soon i started getting really AFC with her, i couldnt help myself. I demanded her passwords, which she gave me and then later changed. We ended up breaking up a few times i would freeze her out and shed always come back a day or two later. But... In dec she broke up with me avain. I asked her if there was someone else and she refused to answer. This upset me because we made it clear before we became "official" that wed both be faithful or not even engage in the relationship. Well, her babys dad ended up asking her to give him a chance and she wanted to try and work it out. I went off and called her every name in the book. She broke up with him after a day and called me saying she didnt want to be with bim. I was hesitant to take her back, but did after 2 weeks. She willingly gave me back all her social media passwords. Well, last friday things happened and we argued, she told me she doesnt want.me around her or her son. I accused her of cheating because i think she may have, dont want to go into details. I called her a fat lazy bitch that spends her wbole life on social media looking for dick (not necessarily true, just exaggerated because i was upset). We had plans for this weekend, i was going to fly out to see her this weekend, which would have been the 5th time we see eachother. After i called her names, she still was accepting my calls for the first 2 days but she told me monday not to ever talk to her again. Shes said this before but it was different this time, her voice was different, sbe meant it. I really dont want to lose this girl, i mean, we had plans n stuff for the future, plus this weekends plans, which ive already paid for. Flight, hotel, etc... Its been 2 days, she hasnt contacted me... We have history and she usually will call or email me back. Im planning to give her until Friday night to respond, but if she doesnt, idk what to do. Im going to take the flight and stay in her city, even if its just solo, i could use a vacation n change of scenery. I just really want our plans to work out. Any advice on how i can get her to consider giving me another chance? In the case that she doesnt respond by Friday? Like, what should i say to get her to come stay with me at the hotel? Shes 22 and lives with her parents... They know about me, but wont allow me to spend the night, but im not gonna pop up at her house uninvited anyways. Any feedback would be appreciated.

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    Default Re: Dont know what route to take with this situation...

    Nice troll.

    Stop being needy, online life is not real life. She probably already moved on and did stuff, she's taking you for social ''fun''.

    Otherwise, let her know you are in town and to pick you up in the lobby to see her favorite places.

    If she does nothing. Go pick up a girl at the best club/bar in town, another at the hotel bar, and than an escort.

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    TAP
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    Default Re: Dont know what route to take with this situation...

    Lol. Troll? Online life?

    We only met online. We moved to texting right away and then calls about a week later. We've seen each other and smashed multiple times since we started dating. Our relationship isnt "online".

    She would literally want to spend every spare minute on the phone with me since we're hundreds of miles apart and cant see eachother regularly. I just got attached to her, and yeah needy too because I loved that she was so clingy and all up on me at first. Right now shes pissed though, shes not just gonna meet me up. I need to really convince her and I probably only have 1 shot. Unless she reaches out to me first, which she usually does. She knows I have friends about an hour n a half away.

    I was thinking something like "Hey I'm in town, the hotel has already been paid for. Call me if you want to go out. Or let me know if not, I have a friend in ______ I'll make other plans to go out there.

    The other friend is a female, so I'm hoping shed see that as a threat and want to stop that from happening at all costs. If that doesnt work, I'm done. I just dont know if there would be a better way. This might work, but it might piss her off even more, which is fine, but I want this girl back.

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    Default Re: Dont know what route to take with this situation...

    thats good jealous plan, just put some cool detail, like you will go see _______ (bar, club etc) its just need to be cool.
    i hope you have good style and peacoocking, also "neckless trick" will do the job if you want to make time bridge.

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    Default Re: Dont know what route to take with this situation...

    "A long distance relationship is no relationship" - Rollo Tomassi.

    As Tomassi says a long distance relationship is really just a buffer against future rejection. Start doing some approaches, try daygame. You talk about your daughter and how because of her you don't want to be banging lots of women. But until you find the right kind of girl who lives in the same area as you. There's really no shame in banging lots of different women. It's a healthy thing called "try before you buy," it stops you from ending up with a defective or incompatible product. And having to spend lots of time and energy dealing with problems.

    Put in the hard work bettering yourself and then things will become easy. Seeming easy fixes like online dating and long distance relationships just hinder your development as a man. Get out there, expose yourself regularly. Put in hours each week, and in five years you won't have to worry about this shit.

    Regards,
    Wolf.
    Who Dares Wins.

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    Default Re: Dont know what route to take with this situation...

    Thats good advice and I do appreciate it, but thats long term things I need to work on. My concern right now is for this weekend. I'd like to keep this girl around in the future also, even if our relationship changes, at this point I'd be cool with it. I just had plans made, and invested money into this weekend already.


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