So I met this girl online about 10 months ago. After talkin for about 5 months, we decided to try a long distance relationship. I had never been in one before and neither had she, but her attitude and personality were amazing. When we first started talking it was just a text here n there and gradually became more frequent to the point we would text and call eachither several times a day during our spare time. We just both enjoyed eachothers companionship. I've studied PUA a bit and know that it works, but i dont like to employ some of the stuff in a relationship cause i just feel like it creates a state where 2 people are just gaming eachother, and i like to be straight up and t4ansparent about everything, its just me. Thing is also, i have a 6 year old daughter and dont want to be involved with multiple women who i just bang. Im really wanting to settle down with a good girl. This girl feels the same way, she has a 18 month old son.
Anyways, she was really into me for the first few months and the feeling was awesome, no complaints, but i noticed dudes always hitting on her on social media. Soon i started getting really AFC with her, i couldnt help myself. I demanded her passwords, which she gave me and then later changed. We ended up breaking up a few times i would freeze her out and shed always come back a day or two later. But... In dec she broke up with me avain. I asked her if there was someone else and she refused to answer. This upset me because we made it clear before we became "official" that wed both be faithful or not even engage in the relationship. Well, her babys dad ended up asking her to give him a chance and she wanted to try and work it out. I went off and called her every name in the book. She broke up with him after a day and called me saying she didnt want to be with bim. I was hesitant to take her back, but did after 2 weeks. She willingly gave me back all her social media passwords. Well, last friday things happened and we argued, she told me she doesnt want.me around her or her son. I accused her of cheating because i think she may have, dont want to go into details. I called her a fat lazy bitch that spends her wbole life on social media looking for dick (not necessarily true, just exaggerated because i was upset). We had plans for this weekend, i was going to fly out to see her this weekend, which would have been the 5th time we see eachother. After i called her names, she still was accepting my calls for the first 2 days but she told me monday not to ever talk to her again. Shes said this before but it was different this time, her voice was different, sbe meant it. I really dont want to lose this girl, i mean, we had plans n stuff for the future, plus this weekends plans, which ive already paid for. Flight, hotel, etc... Its been 2 days, she hasnt contacted me... We have history and she usually will call or email me back. Im planning to give her until Friday night to respond, but if she doesnt, idk what to do. Im going to take the flight and stay in her city, even if its just solo, i could use a vacation n change of scenery. I just really want our plans to work out. Any advice on how i can get her to consider giving me another chance? In the case that she doesnt respond by Friday? Like, what should i say to get her to come stay with me at the hotel? Shes 22 and lives with her parents... They know about me, but wont allow me to spend the night, but im not gonna pop up at her house uninvited anyways. Any feedback would be appreciated.