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    Default Doing NC since 1 Month, received nıthing but there is something complicate!

    My story began 3 months ago. While i m working in another city i met with a girl online actually, i added her in facebook and she called me somehow from whatsapp then we were starting talking. Actually that time i was little sick and tired to change many girls and needed to one regular relationship, therefore we ve chat some serious stuff like having kids, marriage, things we like etc. Almost everthing between us was the same. I was stunned cuz i thought, that i found my rockin soulmate. So i decided to change city, the city where she lives was the same city where i was born and where my family live. İ quitted my job, i know it was stupid, even could not trying to find another. Actually i said her that i m coming, she was pretty schocked and said ok come we can figure out the thing together.

    After we met, the magic continued and i really liked this girl. First one month we farked every day and every place, we had perfect accordance. We talked about marriage, kids and stuff, she met with my family, i met with hers. Following time we were at first month and then suddenly her friends came from to our city to meet me. She acted so cold, with no emotions etc. I was curios what the hell was happened to her. Someday she had a family meeting and before that i offered to meet which she refused. I wondered if she found somebodyelse to meet with. And acted like AFC and wanted a pic with all family members. That day i have also planned to go out for drinks with friends. She also wanted from me a pic. Ok send her and waited for hers. She sent to me nothing! İ called her afterwards to ask about pic and she said i wont send u picture, as response i said ok come with this rockin pic or rock off. She said it is over. İ said ok. But afterwards i figured out that she uploaded the pic to FB, which she did not inform me. After 1 day NC she called me and wanted to meet me. I said ok. We met and fixed the things.

    After 1 week no problem episode, i asked her to upload our pics to Instagram. I asked this cuz i did not want to rocked up, like u know, i don give a shit about lies. She refused to uploads this with lies like i dont like me at pic, this pic is not good. I am waiting for better one bla bla. I refused to believe and thought she didnt want to lose other potential likers and BFs. After that i asked myself a question. I gave up picking up girls for that one. Is this really worth to do it. She even did not wat the share our pics, therefore i armored myself emotionaly i said i do not want to be her. She she begged me 10 times but still refused the put our pics. I asked why u do not want it? She said because of my father, said that u can not share pics. What a rockin reason! She is 25!
    Whatever i declined this offer. She said i am Pragnent!!! I knew it was a lie so i took her to Gynocolog! Guess what, she was not Pragnent.

    After that she said she lost our baby. What kind of emotional torture was it. Whatever i offer to reunition again which she accepted. We farked and she said since many days i did not fark, but actually it s been rockin weeks! And i took her phone and looked to her FB, she searched for her EX. I acted cool and said NOTHIN. 1 week gone this ok till the New Year Celebration. First she said i want to celebrate it with my family, which was ok for me, but afterwards said she would fly to another City where her ex lives. It was a suspicious phenomenon for me and could not understand why. Ok i accept that i acted needy... So she gone and came back again. I offer to her to come to my place for fark. She refused that and said i think we are at unfixible moment and do not know if we are ok? I said for it is fine let s break up. Since then i made NC. She did not try to reach me either. It drag me to obsessive toughts about her.. It is a hard challenge in my mind. But i am sarging everyday, i met new people, i farked couple of times with different girls. But she seems to me almost Oneitis. Do not know why? She also did not celebrate my Birthday and Valentine day. I dont know if there is someone. Probably u will say get over it. But there is unanswered questions in my mind and want to clear everthing out of my mind. I do not have a job right now... It s a mindrock...

    During this no contact period, she dissapered for a while, was not online at whatsapp. But she was switching her instagram from private to open. At valentine's day also was her Instagram open. Now she is online at whatsapp rarely. My question is how can i get back her? Should i post to insta my pic with girls? She might have NPD...

    Any advice i appreciate,(sorry for grammatically mistakes)

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    Default Re: Doing NC since 1 Month, received nıthing but there is something complic

    i need really someone to talk to.. it s rockin burning me inside out..

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    Default Re: Doing NC since 1 Month, received nıthing but there is something complic

    yes its a bit complicated. i suggest to watch some videos from Corey Wayne on youtube, he has a playlist about the topic getting your ex/wife back. he knows the shit, also his e-book is available for free to read at his site but only on PC and on laptop, not on mobile and tablet. he doesnt teach techniques and pick up lines, rather explains women and men actions and helps to understand relationships trough his experiences. its pretty fucking simple once u get the gist of the dynamics of a relationship just that u emotionaly attached makes it hard for u to think straight and the fact that U GOT dumped, your brain makes her a scarcity

    but Corey knows this shit more than anyone i know in the pick up community. check his work out

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    Default Re: Doing NC since 1 Month, received nıthing but there is something complic

    Thanks gab, solid advice.. I am doing NC, i ve put the shit together now i am going on.. She did not call even in my B-day. So big picture is little bit scary. I am with another chicks.

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    Default Re: Doing NC since 1 Month, received nıthing but there is something complic

    Quote Originally Posted by Dicemaster View Post
    Thanks gab, solid advice.. I am doing NC, i ve put the shit together now i am going on.. She did not call even in my B-day. So big picture is little bit scary. I am with another chicks.

    just the quick tips

    - get off from her social media and dont overanalyze her actions, get rid of her stuffs wich reminds u of her, get rid of her number aswell put in a box just to avoid drunk texting
    - u hooking up with others is a good thing, gives u options to choose from and its fucking hard to do i know when u feel deeply for someone else. props
    - dont call her, dont text her she is dead for u. i hope u seperated on good terms btw just in case, but doesnt matter that much
    - if she finds any reason to text, call u...be nice, polite, friendly and ask her out for next week if she says yes then make definite plans at your place, tell her to bring a bottle of wine and ull will make dinner together. if she is unsure or wants to make date on her terms say you were out mostly at night and worked heavily in the past days, u only feel to hang out at your place if she feels to join u to come over she should, if she is not thats fine she should call in the next few weeks, maybe you'll up to something more formal then. if she reaches out again ask her out again, make definite plans if she says no again or if she is flakey say cool its ok, she should call when she figures out when she is free. then get off the phone since you are busy with your life, DONT dick around chatting her EVER, warming up the situation, she calls u because she wants u. thats your Mindset. if she rejects u twice DONT ask her out ever again, her attraction is pretty low then, she should make the date after that. AND DONT REACH OUT EVER FROM NOW ON EVEN IF SHE IS REACHES OUT, she should do the 90-100% of the pursuing. if u hook up and she texts u calls u afterwards u respond later that day in a few words and u make another date for the next week. thats it
    - if u bump into her in person be nice polite, friendly aswell and move on quickly u r busy.
    - keep in mind fb likes, fb comments any of that social media shit doesnt count as reaching out if she does those


    next time post if she reaches out and u made the date im in the same boat at the moment

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    Default Re: Doing NC since 1 Month, received nıthing but there is something complic

    Gap i am wondering if i would go to disco with 4 chicks on my arms what would be the possibilities?

    A-) never comes back
    B-)get jelous and would reach out me
    C-)Calls me and swear

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    Default Re: Doing NC since 1 Month, received nıthing but there is something complic

    Quote Originally Posted by Dicemaster View Post
    Gap i am wondering if i would go to disco with 4 chicks on my arms what would be the possibilities?

    A-) never comes back
    B-)get jelous and would reach out me
    C-)Calls me and swear

    Your exe will constantly check out your social media even if she dumped u even if she blocked u she will do it in some way. Women are stalkers Ofcourse other women on your side means preselection, woman are attracted to preselected man. Put that pic up ofcourse. Its a cheap mindtrick tho but its a way to show it to her ...and to all of your women followers friends that u are preselected and if u put it up as a public pic not sending to her as a private message thats totaly fine. It shows u have a great time on your own. Dont expect any instant reaction btw.

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    Default Re: Doing NC since 1 Month, received nıthing but there is something complic

    Yesterday i shared a picture with long story short 'life is beatiful, learn from your mistake.' she shared also rapidly a photo with herself. I dunno if she baits me... How is your situation by the way? How are you dealing with it?

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    Default Re: Doing NC since 1 Month, received nıthing but there is something complic

    Quote Originally Posted by Dicemaster View Post
    Yesterday i shared a picture with long story short 'life is beatiful, learn from your mistake.' she shared also rapidly a photo with herself. I dunno if she baits me... How is your situation by the way? How are you dealing with it?

    great. just dont overanalyze it. anyways your pic is better

    mine is horrible in the past two weeks i could talk to her and she talked to me, we teased eachother so now that she knows we are on good terms ill ignore her, will not go in the office to her to tease eachother anymore, ill say hi how r u if we see eachother and ill be friendly but thats it...but im really jealous on the inside at one of my coworker and i dumped my rebound fuckbuddy 3 weeks ago and i havent got anyone new to make it easy to move on...well at least her best girlfriend thinks that i have someone new because of a joke i made when she asked about how is my short haired fuckbuddy and i replied "i dumped her for 3 long haired girl "...next day she asked that am i heading to my new bitch? and i just replied you are one of them why do u call women bitches? . so probably she told my ex that i could have some new woman.
    but this isnt helping the case for me getting to feel better

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    Default Re: Doing NC since 1 Month, received nıthing but there is something complic

    why do you feel that way? was she really important for you? Just tell the whole story lets discuss it.


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