My story began 3 months ago. While i m working in another city i met with a girl online actually, i added her in facebook and she called me somehow from whatsapp then we were starting talking. Actually that time i was little sick and tired to change many girls and needed to one regular relationship, therefore we ve chat some serious stuff like having kids, marriage, things we like etc. Almost everthing between us was the same. I was stunned cuz i thought, that i found my rockin soulmate. So i decided to change city, the city where she lives was the same city where i was born and where my family live. İ quitted my job, i know it was stupid, even could not trying to find another. Actually i said her that i m coming, she was pretty schocked and said ok come we can figure out the thing together.
After we met, the magic continued and i really liked this girl. First one month we farked every day and every place, we had perfect accordance. We talked about marriage, kids and stuff, she met with my family, i met with hers. Following time we were at first month and then suddenly her friends came from to our city to meet me. She acted so cold, with no emotions etc. I was curios what the hell was happened to her. Someday she had a family meeting and before that i offered to meet which she refused. I wondered if she found somebodyelse to meet with. And acted like AFC and wanted a pic with all family members. That day i have also planned to go out for drinks with friends. She also wanted from me a pic. Ok send her and waited for hers. She sent to me nothing! İ called her afterwards to ask about pic and she said i wont send u picture, as response i said ok come with this rockin pic or rock off. She said it is over. İ said ok. But afterwards i figured out that she uploaded the pic to FB, which she did not inform me. After 1 day NC she called me and wanted to meet me. I said ok. We met and fixed the things.
After 1 week no problem episode, i asked her to upload our pics to Instagram. I asked this cuz i did not want to rocked up, like u know, i don give a shit about lies. She refused to uploads this with lies like i dont like me at pic, this pic is not good. I am waiting for better one bla bla. I refused to believe and thought she didnt want to lose other potential likers and BFs. After that i asked myself a question. I gave up picking up girls for that one. Is this really worth to do it. She even did not wat the share our pics, therefore i armored myself emotionaly i said i do not want to be her. She she begged me 10 times but still refused the put our pics. I asked why u do not want it? She said because of my father, said that u can not share pics. What a rockin reason! She is 25!
Whatever i declined this offer. She said i am Pragnent!!! I knew it was a lie so i took her to Gynocolog! Guess what, she was not Pragnent.
After that she said she lost our baby. What kind of emotional torture was it. Whatever i offer to reunition again which she accepted. We farked and she said since many days i did not fark, but actually it s been rockin weeks! And i took her phone and looked to her FB, she searched for her EX. I acted cool and said NOTHIN. 1 week gone this ok till the New Year Celebration. First she said i want to celebrate it with my family, which was ok for me, but afterwards said she would fly to another City where her ex lives. It was a suspicious phenomenon for me and could not understand why. Ok i accept that i acted needy... So she gone and came back again. I offer to her to come to my place for fark. She refused that and said i think we are at unfixible moment and do not know if we are ok? I said for it is fine let s break up. Since then i made NC. She did not try to reach me either. It drag me to obsessive toughts about her.. It is a hard challenge in my mind. But i am sarging everyday, i met new people, i farked couple of times with different girls. But she seems to me almost Oneitis. Do not know why? She also did not celebrate my Birthday and Valentine day. I dont know if there is someone. Probably u will say get over it. But there is unanswered questions in my mind and want to clear everthing out of my mind. I do not have a job right now... It s a mindrock...
During this no contact period, she dissapered for a while, was not online at whatsapp. But she was switching her instagram from private to open. At valentine's day also was her Instagram open. Now she is online at whatsapp rarely. My question is how can i get back her? Should i post to insta my pic with girls? She might have NPD...
Any advice i appreciate,(sorry for grammatically mistakes)