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    Question Random Text From Ex

    Ok, so I have a girlfriend from last year whos had a boyfriend for about a year now text me and I want to know what it means. Some background. We dated for about 6 months (unofficially) and broke up because she thought I was using her for sex and I played with her head or something along those lines, which I could see why shed think that seeing as I wouldnt claim her to everyone. I had feelings for her but for some reason I wanted to keep her a secret just in case I found someone else. When we broke up I never had AFC moments and we even talked about sex we had and joked like friends until she got the new boyfriend. She still talked to me little bits until I started talking about sex and her boyfriend got on her facebook and we got into it and he made her block me and such. However, she would always unblock me and even sent me a friend request until we I brought up sex again and he made her block me after she said we couldnt talk about cause she had a boyfriend (which she unblocked me again but this time didn't send a friend request). So after this its been about 3 or 4 months since we talked and I messaged her something I thought would be funny and she didnt reply. Then today she texts me out of the blue saying "hey" which I responded the same thing and she didnt reply. So this got me thinking about her and thinking "man I want to bone her again" and how she was actually a good girlfriend and started remembering the feelings I had I decided to add her and message her asking why she texted me. Now here I got confused because she just said "Sorry" to which I responded "you dont got to be sorry, just tell me why you texted me" and she never replied.

    I'm so confused as to what this means, my friend I was with thinks its cause she still thinks about me and stuff and was trying to see if I'm still into her. I honestly would enjoy getting back together with her but honestly I dont see why shed text me cause I looked at her wall and she makes it seem like they have a perfect relationship. I honestly will put in an effort to swoop her from him if its realistic but it doesnt seem like an overnight operation. I'm thinking if I send her things she finds funny and get her to start talking like were friends I could get her back from him. Now keep in mind guys I dont have one-eitis with her at all, though I think there is a possibility she was the one who got away, I just want her back cause we got along fine when I wasnt fucking with her head (I was kind of immature and made her think I was cheating on her or threatened to leave her because I thought it was funny when she got mad). I do talk to other girls and I party a lot and am going to the club tomorrow night and posting pics with hot girls to make her know I'm doing good and stuff.

    So anyway, what do you guys think was the reason she texted me and if theres a chance to get her back how would I go about it? I'm not going to lie I really miss this girl but its not the end of the world if it doesn't work out.

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    Default Re: Random Text From Ex

    bro u r fuckin beta shit, she is using you as validation, dont yo see man.I think her bf is an alpha and know how to raise Tension. Prob. he does not call much, does bot show attention etcetera. U are always available for her. What the fuck is wrong with you man, stop stalking. Dont give a shit. Next time when she attemps to reach you just fuckin ignore her. This pics stuff is good. Make it, but just fucking for YOURSELF! i m sure u are talented pua but act like an alpha. Next time think about it. Erase her from your mind, block her at facebook! An ex should not be a next!

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    I really dont think she is, like a week or two before she got with this guy I was talking to her and asked her what kind of meat I should get to eat and she replied something like "mine" and I asked her how good our sex was and she said a 10 with all the water emogis and stuff. I think her boyfriends just not nearly as good at sex as me and when hes not around she sometimes thinks of me. Cause I have another ex that was way more serious and she wont even talk to me. This girl wasn't a super serious relationship,we mostly we started out as FWB but she wanted more and I didnt but we stayed monogamous and eventually treated each other like we were dating and she would try to tell me she loves me and all that. We broke up when she started talking to an ex and I said its either him or me and she aid we fight too much but she still wants to talk (meaning she still wanted me to fuck her) but at this point I had feelings and wasn't for that o we went our separate ways. It wasn't like a crash and burn thing, it was kind of mutual.

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    best thing you can do is no contact. I mean no contact. Even for fuck her, let her go and give her a gift to missing you. I hate always this ex boyfriend crap. I am always doing like this kinda situation next. If you think commitment with someone, she should broke up with ex at least min. 6 month and should be sure that she has no feling.. My theorie is if you can fuck her so rouge than we ll become the one..

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    Default Re: Random Text From Ex

    Well its still atracted by you and maybe he is missing the sex with you .I think you are not so clear with womens and you must decide : You like this girl or you want an affair with her
    Get your ex back right now .You deserve to be happy

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    Default Re: Random Text From Ex

    someone should ban this fucker.

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    UPDATE

    Well I didn't initiate any conversations with her since this post for NC plus I have other girls I was after and was by no means going to go without and wait on this chick. So last week she messaged me on Facebook saying something like "thi might sound creepy but I had a dream about you" and she went on to tell me about it and it ended up with her coming to my house and draggedme to my room to "tell me something" but I had another girl in my room so she walked and said she couldn't tell me the rest and when I asked what it was she was going to tell me in the dream she said she wont because she will get in trouble with her boyfriend. I asked if we fucked in the dream she said no shed rather tell me in person if she ever saw me again and then started asking me why we broke up. I responded by saying idk you tell me it was you who mde that decision and then she claimed she didn't remember why. Then I noticed she blocked me the next day and I texted her asking why and she said her boyfriend did it.

    So I went a week without talking to her and I texted her today just asking whats up and she says fighting with her boyfriend cause he treats her like shit, blah blah blah, I ask for details hoping to get her to say all this negative shit about him and then shed only remember good shit about me, which worked cause she went off about how he mistreats her blah blah blah. (sounded like not satisfying her needs emotionally, not like putting hands on her) She said he is an asshole and I joked about how she always called me an asshole for not texting her back and she said something about how guys aren't loyal and thats why she got mad blah blah blah. I replied saying I was loyal af and the closest thing I did to cheating on her was go to the bar with my buddies and got a lap dance from a Stripper (I was 18 at the time and never had one before from a stripper) and I even told her about it. She replied saying she knows and asked me if I had a girlfriend to which I was honest and said I've been single since we broke up and talked to a few girls and had some hook ups but nothing serious then asked why she asked. She said she was just wondering and I said I was going to be coming by her town to hang out with some friends and asked if she wanted me to come see her. She said she was going to be with the guy and I told her to have him go home and she said hes going home the next night but shed feel bogus and knows he'd be mad. Then I said there must be some reason why shes so interested in my love life to which she said she was just curious. I responded to that saying "nah I think you just miss me" in a joking manner and she texted back "shut up". I then said "I secretly miss you too, dont worry" then asked about what she was going to tell me in her dream. From here the conversation dies out because she texts me 20 minutes later saying her phone was dead but she was going to be in the town I was in last night. After this I didn't reply because I didn't want the conversation to get boring.

    So what I took from it is she wants me back and I really want to bone again. I honestly want her to cheat on him with me because I kind of like being single but if she dumps him for me I'd be fine with that too. I just dont know what to do from here. Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: Random Text From Ex

    i think she was interested but u caved too quick. U shouldnt have dug into y shes asking about ur love life n telling her u hooked up with girls...unless it was more in a joking playful way. It kinda of seemed like u were trying to brag or make her jealous slghtly. She was curious and thinking about u but u made it too easy for her. U told her u missed her when she didnt tell u she missed u. Then u asked her if she wanted u to come see her. Two things i think that were wrong with that. U asked her what she wanted/permission...should say "i want to see u" or along those lines, n u also seem too eager like ur kind of jumping at a chance to see her a little too soon. Just my opinion from an outside perspective.

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    like Jaymood said, u acted AFC. U were too available for her and let her play games with you. What the fuck man do not you get it? She is a bitch and playing double. Cut the crap say her it is over. Even when she dumps this fucker. Go NC. Do not answer her.

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    Default Re: Random Text From Ex

    You want to fuck her or u want to be her friend? Cuz right now you're being a great friend to her, making her feel better when she's sad, telling her how great she is and that you want to make shit better for her. Exactly what an AFC little bitch would do.

    You said you didn't act like that when you were together so why are u starting to now?

    Next at time she contacts you, and don't feed us this bullshit about how you're going NC but contact her a week later, all u do is invite her over to your place for drinks, coffee or tea. If she says no tell her to contact you when she changes her mind and delete her number from your phone. Since you obviously don't understand the concept behind NC!


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