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    xFrostbyte is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Post Ex broke up with me and is currently rebounding

    I read Cody's stickied post and am dealing with a rebound.

    Short background: I met this girl in the college club I run and she broke up with me literally 24 hours after an amazing monthaversary date. We don't go to the same school so I only see her once a week when my club meets. She's currently rebounding to another guy in the club (and a mutual friend) and all of their friends are trying to convince them to stop. Since I'm the president of the club, I sponsored a trip for all of us (her friends, her, and me) to make a presentation at an expo and finalized everything a day before we broke up. Unfortunately, I can't pull out of this obligation. My (ex)girlfriend is super pissed off at me for getting involved while everyone is enthusiastic about this opportunity.



    I will admit I did the crying, begging, weak shit I knew I wasn't supposed to do, but after a week of settling my emotions, and another week of hanging out with my attractive female friends (and uploading pics to facebook), I still want her back.

    I can't really ignore her or disappear because of the nature of the situation, but she removed me from all social media. I am bringing another girl to the club meeting this Friday (she's a close friend that's aware of everything and will try to do what she can to get her jealous) but I'm wondering if my (ex)girlfriend will even be receptive of the tactics due to the whole rebound thing.



    What would you guys do in the first place?

    Irrelevant info: When we got together, she described me as "emotionally stable and confident." I have admitted to her that I haven't been adjusting to life very well and I became a huge ball of stress which caused a massive shift in my stability and confidence. In the last two weeks, I've gotten my life under control and am working towards that stability and confidence again. Her friends describe her rebound guy as "someone who reminds me of the old xFrostbyte."



    Whole story: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationshi...20f_shes_in_a/

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    Dicemaster is offline PUA in Training Achievements:
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    Default Re: Ex broke up with me and is currently rebounding

    WTF was the problem? Why she left you? And come on man how couls you cry in front of her, where are your balls.

    First go NC. No stalking shit. Meet with other chicks. And tell me more about this.

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    xFrostbyte is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Ex broke up with me and is currently rebounding

    Quote Originally Posted by Dicemaster View Post
    WTF was the problem? Why she left you? And come on man how couls you cry in front of her, where are your balls.
    I didn't cry in front of her, I balled my eyes out during the week she asked for space. Only thing I did do in front of her was try to convince her for a second chance.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dicemaster View Post
    First go NC. No stalking shit. Meet with other chicks. And tell me more about this.
    She broke up with me because I got extremely stressed out. When we first met and got together, I was confident and emotionally stable, but as time went on, I got a promotion at work, I got a promotion in my organization, I tackled my sister's relationship problems too (She was broken up with a week before I was), and college midterms. With all this stress, she felt like she couldn't make me happy no matter how many times I reassured her that I was trying to adjust to all of this.

    I am meeting other girls (I'm following the stickied advice). Last night I went to dinner with an old female friend of mine to catch up and talk about the whole situation. I'm currently NC.

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    Default Re: Ex broke up with me and is currently rebounding

    Stick with NC. NC is your only option. There are POF. Do not try to convince her again. Leave her, give her a gift to missing you. U have more relevant issues on your life. If i were you, i d support to my sis first. Priorities, Priorites. Focus on yourself first. Detect the problems and try to fix them. Till then do not contact her again. As you told, the fight was not so fucked up, it means probably she ll return to you but NC.

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    Default Re: Ex broke up with me and is currently rebounding

    Well when you beeh her ask her to forgive you you seem disperate about her and this its the worst thing you do .Womens are atrcted by powerful man that its not afected when she broke up on him .When she broke up on you you must show her that you dont care .Then the girl will say wow that boy its powerful its dont care about me i think it will find another girl soon ,now i am atracted to him .I hope you get my point .
    Get your ex back right now .You deserve to be happy

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    Default Re: Ex broke up with me and is currently rebounding

    Hey guys, just giving you an update on what happened during yesterday's meeting at my club.


    This is the third week of NC between me and my ex and I've been casually seeing other women. I brought one of them to the club this week to show her what I spent most of my time doing. We stopped to get food on the way and ate at the venue. Once we arrived, I immediately saw my ex with her rebound. While I was eating with the new girl, I noticed her shooting glances towards me from across the room and her face was extremely red (she'd only get red faced when she was pissed or jealous). For some reason, her rebound leaves the room and stays missing for a good 2 hours, leaving her alone in the club.


    While eating, my best female friend shows up and gives me a hug. My ex knows about this female friend of mine and was jealous of her during our relationship. After the hug, I noticed that my ex put up her hood on and laid her head down in the corner of the room. Every time she'd lift her head, she'd be red and she didn't socialize with anyone at all. I wanted to take this as an opportunity to talk to her and tease her a little bit because I was extremely confident that she was jealous, but then my event started to run into a lot of problems and I was swamped in tasks to do.


    The girl I brought told me she wanted to go home, so I left the venue to drive her. When I got back, her rebound was there with her and she was all smiles and happiness. Not the jealous red faced person she was before I left.


    I never got the chance to talk to her during the event or capitalize on her jealousy but she did readd me on social media. I won't see her again for another two weeks because of Spring Break and I do still have feelings for her even after the three girls I took out to dinner these past few weeks (We don't have a lot in common).


    What should I do?

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    Default Re: Ex broke up with me and is currently rebounding

    Talking with your ex is bad choice. It is good that u did not speak with her. Do now give a shit until she dumps her rebound.
    Do not play easy guy. Stick with NC, no mather fucking what.


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