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    Default Maybe a lesson to learn from....for all. How to get out of friend zon and t

    First, English is not my first language, so sorry in advance.
    I will try to explain what happened and I really need some advice. About 8 months ago, i got a job offer from a company and took it. She was working at the same company. I knew her from before, but didn't really pay any attention to her back then. I was trying to date other girls at the moment, she was not even a dot on my radar. We started to hang out, and although i told her from the start I would fuck her if given the chance, I didnít push too hard because we were working together, and I thought you don't shit were you eat. Also she had a boyfriend back then, for about 3 years.
    About 5 months ago, she tried to go out with a colleague, that didnít pan out, and her boyfriend find out and dump her. She called me, and came to me for comfort I guess. (not to the other guy), and ask me if I like her. ("I know you want to fuck me, but do you like me? I need to know", I said yes, maybe, jokingly, and she said if I like her, she will leave. So I said NO....yeah, I know, big mistake.) That night, she slept with me, I tried to fuck her, or kiss her, she didnít let me. (Then is when I started to have feelings for her. (In the meantime, I was gaming other girls)
    Fast forward, at the beginning of January I started to crawl my way up from friend zone (I knew I was in it, don't worry). And she was responding well. In February, I asked her out, and meet with some friends of mine (who knew I liked her). We both got drunk, got in an argument, I left angry, and she got drunk and fucked my bud. (I found out from her the day after, she told me that my friend was the first guy after her ex she really liked.) I let my feelings out, and told her that I like her, and I didnít want her to see me ever. My friend (for 10 fucking years) backed off (remorse, he told me he didnít knew I liked her, (after 2 weeks), and didnít push to see her again.
    After one week of Freeze Out, I was playing poker, and she called me through a common friend, came to see me, and wanted to chat. I took her to my home, we started to drink, got drunk, and tried again to fuck her. She didnít let me again, but I did finger her and I did a cunnilingus to her. (no sex....)
    Fast forward to this week, my friend (although she likes her to, backed off) refused to see her, and I did spend a lot of time with her. On Monday again I tried to have sex with her, again she only let me finger her and lick her. (she was wet as hell, but again didn't want to fuck with me (she considers me at fault because my friend didn't want to see her again, i guess this is the reason I didnít fuck her yet). On Thursday, she come to visit me, and we got in a fight, she yelled at me and accused me I was the reason she was not happy and i started to laugh, I told her I wanted to kiss her. She left, and I started a no contact. (before we were speaking daily).

    Last night she sends me this message on Facebook: "Hey, Sorry for this situation. I want to apologize if I threw some harsh words that evening. No matter how nervous I was, I was to angry. I felt mocked and had come to you to ask for my rights, explanations and apologies. And rest assured that there'll be nothing between me and your friend because of the drama caused. So look on the bright side, you could not have me, your friend could not have me either. You won, but know that it hurts. I'm trying to put my life in order and I try to get out of this shock and drama. I hope after a few months you will get over me and then we can go out for a beer. Until then see what you do with your life, if you take a job or you start traveling, be wise in your decisions. Do not be mad at your friend, you'll finally be reconciled after a while. Please understand that you could not make me happy anyway. You were a little petty and selfish because you didnít let me try to be happy with someone else and you saw your own interest. Even know that you knew how to fight for what you want, and that is admirable in a strange way. Take care of yourself, do not be under the line, take time to figure things out. Even if we had a fight and no longer communicate, know that I worry for you, hope you do not put yourself in trouble. I will always help if you need something, in spite of everything that happened. Take care" I didn't answer that text.
    At the moment I can date other girls, but I still want her. (oneitis i know) Should I answer that text, or go full no contact until she tries harder. (Yes, move on, bla bla). I really need advice, I tried so hard to get out of friend zone, I finally managed to do that (and my friend fucked all up).
    Thanks in advance

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    Default Re: Maybe a lesson to learn from....for all. How to get out of friend zon a

    you played all wrong bro, your fault was u showed much attention than she deserved. So once a cheater always a cheater. Even if you could have relationship with her u d probably be paranoid. I have been yhere before, i cheated my ex and left, afterwards had a relationship who i was cheated my ex. I ve been so paranoid because she accepted to be second one for a time, that means she could be also second for others. I made a fucking mistake and it cost me MUCH.

    So if i were u, i would kick her ass cuz there is no future. I know u could not fuck her and obsessed with it. But this obsession comes from failure, fuck another one for a while and say to me it was really oneitis.

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    Default Re: Maybe a lesson to learn from....for all. How to get out of friend zon a

    I know, you are right, i showed to much attention. But that was because circumstances, and because i was forced to, if not, i could loose her for my friend. You are right, it is oneitis. I also know i can have sex with her. I just need to play my cards right, and for now, go no contact for a while. That last message from her, was for her comfort, not mine. That is why i didn't answer. I just need to show less emotion, because, right know, I'm pretty sure she doesn't want me to loose me. She just likes me as a friend (that is why i can still play, and proceed from here). To much comfort. So no contact is to improve myself, find another, then come back and finish the job.
    Any other opinions? How should i play from here on? I know my mistakes, at least some of them. But i need to improve my game, so what could i have done different? What could i do from here on? Go no contact, or replay to that message with something cold, indifferent?

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    Default Re: Maybe a lesson to learn from....for all. How to get out of friend zon a

    worst experiences are our best teachers. Sit down and think what did i do wrong?

    Forget this slut bro. Maybe u do not like the term slut but this is what that is. She fucked your friend while she knew that you like her. What a fucking big mistake.

    If i were you i would completely forget her. Act like she does not exist, treat her like cheap whore. IGNORE. I know u would fuck her but, the effort u show is much more than getting new one. Find a girl who can love you as you do to her, she is somewhere outta, go and find this worthy girl yo you.

    You know what, if i can find this perfect chick for me, i would stop gaming on other but till then game forever.

    P.S. i tought i found that chick 4 months ago. I risked everthing inc. my job, changed my city. Now i am takind look from outside, how fucked i am buthonestly i am still AWESOME.

    Cuz life is bitch, if u r weak, everyone kicks your ass. Be the man, be the alpha. let this girl go bro. I feel for you. If you need someone to talk to, send pm.

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    Default Re: Maybe a lesson to learn from....for all. How to get out of friend zon a

    I agree, maybe she is a slut. I really don't care anymore. But mark my words, i will fuck her, then leave. Just to teach her a lesson. Just to be the alpha. At the moment, i'm gaming other girls, and is going fine. And that is what i do now, I'm ignoring her, i'm going no contact.

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    Default Re: Maybe a lesson to learn from....for all. How to get out of friend zon a

    Fucking a girl, then leaving (to teach her a lesson) isn't alpha.
    That's what douchebags do.
    Dont be like that.

    Either do the REAL alpha thing, which is let it go & move on..... or try to fix what got messed up & make it right.

    The whole mentality that some guys have of "I'll punish her, or teach her a lesson" is completely screwed up & totally beta.

    A true alpha man doesn't get affected if things don't work with one particular girl he's trying to game.


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    Default Re: Maybe a lesson to learn from....for all. How to get out of friend zon a

    Yes, you are right. The truth is i still think about her. I need to go NC until she reaches out to me (She kind of did trough that last message, which i still didn't answer....). Until then, I'm meeting new girls. Problem, i meet someone who would want to sleep with me, the problem is she is not the same league with the one above. I'm still thinking, should i sleep with her?, or don't do damage to her ( I know for a fact that if i sleep with her, she will get hurt, i don't like her....).
    Another thing, is NC best thing her, because i'a kind of confuse her about her message (That message translates into "I like your friend more, but I like you as a friend ass well, and Ii don't wanna loose you.) So, if i play this right, it could be something.....I'm still deciding if it's the right thing to do....

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    Default Re: Maybe a lesson to learn from....for all. How to get out of friend zon a

    There is a chance to fuck a chick and you refuse cuz u will lose your virginity? Am i right?

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    Default Re: Maybe a lesson to learn from....for all. How to get out of friend zon a

    You are far from right. She is not that beautiful. That is the problem. ) The worst you can do is fuck a ugly chick after you fuck a beautiful one...it's worst for you... I'm speaking from experience. ) But i like how you think. I'm quite picky about women these days.

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    Default Re: Maybe a lesson to learn from....for all. How to get out of friend zon a

    Yes i did. That was not that bad. So you are getting emotional that means lack of testesteron. Hit the gym bro. Really i feel for you


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