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Thread: Is there any hope?

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    Default Is there any hope?

    Sorry if this is a bit long.
    My ex broke up with me 4 months ago. She said she no longer loved me and didnt want to waste my time. We had a brilliant 2 year relationship and were madly in love. I think college was the start of the problem. I was absolutely delighted when she got into college with me and I thought we'd be together forever. For the first few months it was still perfect and the same. We then had a pregnancy scare which I feel may have changed her thinking. We got through that and after a few weeks I noticed that she stopped replying to my messages as much as I was used to and only really replied to answer any questions I asked and was generally distant. She said she wasn't feeling up to seeing me. I let it sllide for a week or two as we had been through a lot and I knew she needed space . After a few weeks I confronted her ...asked her if u did something wrong. She replied with the old 'its not you its me'. I suggested we should meet up and talk but she refused as she said it would be too hard. I knew that in person she wouldn't be able to say it to me so I guess its good we didn't meet up as I would be in an unhappy relationship . She said that she'd probably let me back into her life again but she needed a few months to try and work on herself. Obviously then I did the whole begging and pleading thing which didn't do me any good. I then decided to do no contact for a month And last week I reached out to her again. I got positive responses the first few times but last night I tried to bring up an old memory and just got a very neutral response. The conversation was quite awkward and I ended up apologising for the awkwardness. She replied saying that its fine and she likes hearing from me. I know that doesn't sound that bad but I still feel like it was full of guilt. I know she feels bad for leaving me and now I think she is afraid to let me in and feel the same way again because she is afraid of hurting me. I know I looked weak by being so awkward. I also have noticed that she has made lots of new friends since she left me and seemed to have even forgotten her friends from home ( guess that includes me). Is this a sign of her moving on? How can I get her to let me in again? I know we can be what we were again and she even said she would try again at some stage but I feel like she won't. I care about her so much and just want her to be happy.

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    Default Re: Is there any hope?

    Forgot to add that although she's making lots of new friends I'm pretty sure she's not in a rebound relationship and kind of think she hasn't been with anyone since we broke up as sex was a big deal for her and I don't see her just giving up to a random person.

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    Default Re: Is there any hope?

    I'm gonna tell you what you NEED to hear, and not what you want to hear.
    You're best bet is to become the coolest motherfucker on campus.

    See other people... Go out with friends & let her see & hear about how awesome you are.

    Don't get hung up on this girl & let her turn you into a self-loathing, whining, depressed chump.

    You have to fully let go of her, in order to pull her back in.
    Make her miss you via your actions, not words.

    There's nothing you can say to her that will change her mind... Only her own emotions.


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    Default Re: Is there any hope?

    Next time you hear "It's me not you"...ask if she's sure? If the answer is "Yes" then exit on the high note like a champ (Throwing duce's over your shoulder)! Don't even ask why and no need to be mad.

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    Default Re: Is there any hope?

    Girls are very strange creatures and if you give them too much atention they dont feel atracted by you .My advice its to be cold with her a good period and not contact her ,try to act as you definetively forgot her .You will see that after a whyle if you have anough atient and dont conact her ,it will contact you back
    Get your ex back right now .You deserve to be happy

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