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Thread: My ex in new relationship just after one week of break up, need help

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    Default My ex in new relationship just after one week of break up, need help

    Please Guys need help here ....

    We had a 2 years relationship and lived in her apartment, we even wanted to married soon.

    The last 2 months we had economic problems, she speaking about that all the time and i went crazy most of the time. I insulted her one night and she said me that want to break up with me and she ask me to leave.

    The next day i called her and tell her that i was sorry, want to meet her etc.
    Of course she refused and tell me that we are finished

    After 4 days went to her home to speak to her and change her mind, same again she said that she dont change opinion and that she dont want me anymore

    So i choosed to let her calm, "no contact rule" , no calls, sms etc with her for almost one week until yesterday.
    Yesterday some friends tell me that they see her to kiss one guy in public, the guy flirt with her the night before and she goes straight ahead to meeting with him the next day (wtf?)

    I turned crazy and call her again, i said to her that i love her and want her back and that the kid want just to have sex with her... She insult me after that

    Broked the "no contact rule" and call her because of the kiss,
    what she is doing?? Forget and moved on in just one week??
    I do everything wrong, i am the needy one now

    Just one month before wanted to marry me, she was jealous and had obsession with me

    I choosed to not speak with her anymore, i am broke as hell because i wanted to marry her.
    Please someone with same experience help me

    Thank you all

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    Default Re: My ex in new relationship just after one week of break up, need help

    You are needy. Too needy. You have to calm down, stop contacting her, and try to stop thinking about her. Maybe that guy is just a rebound, maybe not. You don't care anymore. Your problem is that you don't have any more options other than her.
    You fucked up to much, in my opinion. If you want any chance to get back on track, you need to figure out your other problems (money for example), and after that, maybe you could try again. In the mean time, if you want any chance to get back with her, you need to stop contacting her. Don't talk with HER friends about her, try to talk as little as possible with YOUR friends about her. Stop drinking, go to the gym ( If you cannot afford, try something at home, running, freeletics, anything. Make some kind of sport (chess does NOT count). And NO CONTACT MEANS NO CONTACT. I'm afraid your only chance is to let her be, if she kisses another....maybe she was drunk, or maybe she really liked him, again, not your problem anymore.
    If it happens to meet her, don't ACT NEEDY. Try to be calm, happy (not to happy, wish her well, don't talk to much, don't brag about anything,). You both need some time. If you get out, meet other girls ( try to meet girls who are beautiful, if your ex was a 8, you have to meet girls who are at least that, an 8).
    Find a new hobby, fucking hit that gym, and grow a fucking pair.
    Look again at your text, and please tell me you acted like an Alpha or not? ( Look in the mirror and slap yourself) I recently passed trough a break up, but oh boy, i did not acted beta. (and believe me, it was not easy). And for God sake, learn some English. (English is not my first language, but at least i try to write correctly.)

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    Default Re: My ex in new relationship just after one week of break up, need help

    I acted like the bigger Beta ever :P, i was the Alpha in our relationship but she played well with me in the end.
    When you realize that you lost your toy your mind is blocked, i do all the errors together....

    I am kickboxer and very aggressive male , in many situations i am Alpha but i am Beta too when i lost my cool easy.
    Our problem is that in our brawl i insulted her hard, and she tell me that we are finished...

    Now i know its all finished, today i learn some things from mutual friends:

    1. She is very happy with her new boyfriend, he treated her like a queen and he will pay a hotel for her in the holidays
    2. They will be engaged soon (they are 5 days together LOL)
    3. Tomorrow she will meet his parents

    I am sure that we have a rebound relationship here, everything is too fast.
    I feel sorry for the beta kid she found to play

    Anyway now i want her back only to play with her and take revenge, girls like her must pay.

    My plan is to get out with many girls (jealous), No Contact with her and to improve my body language and appearence,
    then i just wait my toy to come back

    If she dont come back, i must have a new girlfriend (rebound) as soon as possible.
    Its hard for me because i am out of the game 2 years

    More experience users can help me with a quide and plan, thanks

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    Default Re: My ex in new relationship just after one week of break up, need help

    I understand what you're feeling. But you should realize that you must not argue with a woman. It's a never-ending loop. Time wasted.
    Having said that, don't take revenge on her. You're upset now, you wanna do something to make her pay. But really, she moved on, do you still wanna fuck your head up because of a girl who you think doesn't deserve you?
    Focus your energy on fucking other girls. You'll not only find out that it's time better wasted, but you'll also realize that sometimes letting things go is the best path.
    Moreover, if you move on she'll see that and she'll probably want you back. Then you'll reject her, because you moved on. Better that way.

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    Default Re: My ex in new relationship just after one week of break up, need help

    Thanks guys, i am really bad with myself now.
    Dont believe in me anymore, i lost her because i was idiot


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