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    Default Re: I Lost Her, But Want Her Back

    Quote Originally Posted by MAATHEWW View Post
    Okay, by definition is the fact that she lives an hour away considered as out of my way? Which would pose as A problem because like I said earlier, she has no money for transport. I could easily, get her to pay for her own things but how do I let her know that she has to pay for herself? I don't want to have to tell after we're out that she has to get her own food, then her not eat at all, because to me that seems like an asshole move.

    Okay, so I think I understand where you are getting with this, so really, I just have to be firm and stick to what I want to do instead of her taking control of everything, but also raise being playful when around her.


    That's why I told you that you don't have the capacity to draw this girl back in. You're still putting her on a pedestal, thinking about everything to make it right. I tried to make you see this is precisely the mistake you're doing, but you're still too blind to realize it.
    It's understandable that you manipulated Hands to help you by driving the conversation back to your agenda, however that's not good for you and Hands should realize this, because he's not really helping you. He may give you all the best tips, but you're listening to only what you want, not what you need.
    Bear in mind that your problem isn't really what you say. It's about your inner game and you won't be able to fix it in 2 or 3 weeks, neither by talking with one particular girl. You'll fuck up immensely and that's precisely what will make you learn. But to achieve this you have to understand that you will fuck up again with this girl. But you don't.

    Oneitis is a fucked up shit.

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    Default Re: I Lost Her, But Want Her Back

    I am absolutely, splitting hairs between these two conversations that are taking place right now. In Hands last post, he explained that it couldn't work in my favor because by driving an hour to see her is considered out of my way and that it shouldn't be like that. So he gave me helpful tips for the next girl whom has the capacity to do so, which is useful to know.

    Other than that, currently I am speaking to a few other women and seeing where they lead too. I have been using this website as some what of a guide to obtain better results, and in turn is aiding me into not thinking of her as much.

    I definitely understand, that no matter which route I will take at this point "I Will Fuck Up". So working on myself, and other women seems to be the better option at this point to sustain relinquishing this Oneitis I currently have.


    So Lenric, tell me what I need to hear not what I want to hear. Guide me into becoming A better version of me, I think at this point you're my best shot at survival here. Haha.

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    Default Re: I Lost Her, But Want Her Back

    I already told you mate, everything else was just you mentally masturbating with anything that validates your neediness about this particular girl. But do continue please, I find this vaguely entertaining.

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    Default Re: I Lost Her, But Want Her Back

    Well, you just had me speechless.

    There's nothing really more to continue on the topic of my ex because I need to face the fact what is done is done, and it's better left where it currently is instead of pursuing any further validation of my state of affairs with her, because anything more would be just met with failure.

    I think I am beginning to understanding the logic behind your posts, and this has been a great help thus far. I haven't really had anyone other than myself to speak about it with, and lets face it when it comes to these particular topics your own mind is your worst enemy, you act and think irrational and outside of what has happened and what is in fact true.


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