I did all that, that's why we hooked up in the first place, the thing was that I've had a crush on her for quite a while, and we spent a lot of time getting to know each other alot more, that's when I stumbled and started nurturing real feelings for her, and ended up chasing her away. You're right she didn't want a relationship, but I did, chump move I know but shit happens.
She has a voracious sexual appetite, so I know she wants to fuck, but because we're friends, I can't access that side of her. I can't show body language because emotionally shes in protective mode, so she'll only text, and hide behind it like her life depends on it. I'm not trying to make this sound impossible, I just want to lay the ground work. I know her well enough to say that I can't just charge in and tell her what I want because she wants to be played with, but she won't give me the opportunity to do so.