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    Default Re: Herpes and Pushing Too Hard

    To add to this, as no one brought it up yet, though it is obvious...learn from this! Guess what, you may have effed up, pushed too hard, etc. but you learned how NOT to handle this situation in the future. Will only make you better in the game for future HB's.

    I can promise you, the oneitis will go away with time. You'll look back on this and eventually appreciate the opportunity to grow from the poor choices made.

    Keep your head up brotha!
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    Default Re: Herpes and Pushing Too Hard

    Thank you guys, I appreciate all the words of wisdom.

    I have a terrible issue with not being able to let shit go (I even have it tattooed on my wrist to try and remind me).

    Was able to get most of my roster back from when I started talking to the oneitis, however its still been difficult making moves and running game on them while I am still thinking about the oneitis.

    I know this goes away in time, but in the present it really sucks... I just don't know how to let it the fuck go. I keep racking my brain for ways to fix it. (When we all know there is nothing that can be done, except moving on, continuing to grow my inner game and if in a couple months I still feel this way I will have a more alpha mind state to make a better move than the AFC shit I keep doing now) there is no substitute for time.

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    Default Re: Herpes and Pushing Too Hard

    Since no one's brought this up. You should have just told her ahead of time. It wouldn't have mattered, she would have still slept with you, and she would trust you allot. All you needed to do was tell her after you had some good dates but before you hooked up, like earlier in the night that you banged her. She wouldn't have cared. What freaked her out was you NOT telling her beforehand. It wasn't the fact that you had an STD but the fact you knew and concealed it. Women hate men that are liars (even though they lie all the time).

    A good buddy of mine has HIV and he's still had a couple girlfriends. Women don't care about that stuff.

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    Default Re: Herpes and Pushing Too Hard

    I know, she has since told me that was the issue, not the herpes, but the dishonesty.

    Another lesson learned!

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    Default Re: Herpes and Pushing Too Hard

    If you don't mind me asking how did you get the herpes? Have you slept with a lot of women or something (like 20?)
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: Herpes and Pushing Too Hard

    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    If you don't mind me asking how did you get the herpes? Have you slept with a lot of women or something (like 20?)
    I don't mind at all, anytime I can pass along some knowledge on the subject is a good thing (pardon the irony).

    I have had sex with 27 women but thats not really the reason for getting herpes (IMO). When I was in my early 20s I had unprotected sex with a woman (only the 6th girl I had ever slept with) that I just met and got herpes. She never even knew that she had it, until I broke out and found out.

    1 in 6 US adults has herpes (that number is growing every year) and of that number 80% of them don't even know they have it.

    Herpes is very easily manageable with medication, and after having it for 8 years out breaks are very few and far between, which makes the risk of transmition below 5% even without a condom. In fact because condoms don't cover the entire genital area they are not much help when it comes to herpes.

    If you have had sex with more than 6 people in your life, chances are you have had sex with someone who has herpes, I would encourage everybody to get checked if they haven't yet.

    Now if I only I could have told that to the HB10 BEFORE I slept with her (smh)


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