Re: How to get her? confused...
Firstly. As long as You exist, She exist, There is always a chance.
Secondly, She left you for another guy, Then cheated on him with you. Probably both these actions are caused by a lack of attention males gave her compared to what she needed. So if you don't give her the attention she desires she will get insecure causing her to seek it in other places. Then he repeats the process and she comes back to you. This is a Validation process. Basically stating she is not relationship worthy, You don't want to date a girl like this who you have to constantly worry that the second you're busy, she is seeking attention else where.
If you just want to do shit with her as revenge, Try Xavier's Boy Friend Destroyer Techniques. They work a mighty charm.
She was in a state of guilt and vulnerability by the sounds of it when these Cheating on her current man occurred. But I would safely assume it was the lack of attention, that lead to this. The process:
1. She is insecure.
2. She seeks to fill that void.
3. That is unsuccessful.
4. She starts to think.
5. She thinks of you.
6. You meet.
7. (Due to steps 1-5) she reveals her vulnerability.
8. You comfort her (which is what she needed)
9. you are now the source of her need.
10. You both commit infidelity.
So understanding this process. Its easy to get her, Just be a source of comfort, when she feels vulnerable, invite her over.
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.