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    Default How to get her? confused...

    Hi guys First of all sorry for my english i am not native speaker.

    I met with my ex-girlfriend (after the year and 4 months) it was like friendy meeting and were talking normal things...and then she suddenly started to cry and apologize to my for pain she caused to me (she left me for another guy). I was trying to comfort her but we strated to kissing...and it was very very hot...after couple of minutes i was fin***ing her and kissing everywhere like foreplay and then she stopped it...Now i need to advice from you guys....I want her (maybe for revenge, meaybe i dont know...) It was 2 weeks ago and she didnt contact me, should i contact her and try to met her again? By your experiences, was that situation just heat of the moment ( maybe guilt?) and she isnt bothering about it right now or it was somethng deeper for her and she is thinking about it. Do you think i have still chance? she told me that sometimes she is crying when she think about me. Iam glad for every advice and response. And again sorry for my english.

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    Default Re: How to get her? confused...

    After that incident have you reached out to her again?

    Has she reached out to you?

    How old are the two of you?

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    Default Re: How to get her? confused...

    Hi Corry

    First of all, Who contacted Who?

    Did You Contact Her or did She Contact You?

    Which ever it was its starting to sound like you were rushing things a little bit and didn't really give her a chance to sort her feelings out before deciding whether to try again.

    You really need to talk things through to find out what when wrong and why She left you for this other guy and if you think She would do it again, then you could be better off without her.
    The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least

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    Default Re: How to get her? confused...

    Firstly. As long as You exist, She exist, There is always a chance.

    Secondly, She left you for another guy, Then cheated on him with you. Probably both these actions are caused by a lack of attention males gave her compared to what she needed. So if you don't give her the attention she desires she will get insecure causing her to seek it in other places. Then he repeats the process and she comes back to you. This is a Validation process. Basically stating she is not relationship worthy, You don't want to date a girl like this who you have to constantly worry that the second you're busy, she is seeking attention else where.

    If you just want to do shit with her as revenge, Try Xavier's Boy Friend Destroyer Techniques. They work a mighty charm.

    She was in a state of guilt and vulnerability by the sounds of it when these Cheating on her current man occurred. But I would safely assume it was the lack of attention, that lead to this. The process:

    1. She is insecure.
    2. She seeks to fill that void.
    3. That is unsuccessful.
    4. She starts to think.
    5. She thinks of you.
    6. You meet.
    7. (Due to steps 1-5) she reveals her vulnerability.
    8. You comfort her (which is what she needed)
    9. you are now the source of her need.
    10. You both commit infidelity.

    So understanding this process. Its easy to get her, Just be a source of comfort, when she feels vulnerable, invite her over.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: How to get her? confused...

    Hi
    first of all thanks for your replies guys

    to flyguyinMN: i contacted her yesterday,we werent in any contact after that happend. we are both 23.

    to alphabeta: she contacte me first. Even before that she was still trying to be in contact but i dont wanted to be friend with her because it was hurting me. Yes i was rushing things in the moment when that "cheating" happened i start to kiss her but i completely felt he freely she surrender to me without any ressistance.

    to Tyrone1991: thanks for your great answer

    when i contacted( texting and one pohone call from her later) her yesterday it was because she was one evening before her final exam and i know that she was very stressed. So i wished her good luck and i was trying to make her more comfortable and anecourage her. And she started to telling me lot of informations. We were talking bout what happend but not seriusly at all. It was more like humoure and jokes. I was like using very cocky sexual humour (like very erotic flirting, but i know that she like that kind of humour) for example i told her that i realy liked when i touched her panties then real flood happens and its clear that someone down there is remembering me. Her response was good and she loughed. She told me: iam only one who make her so wet and horny (literraly) and she love my kissiin and she i glad that i refreshed it to her. Now i think that she is sexualy unsatisfied with that guy. After that we move to another much more serious topic. She told me that her grandfather died just few days before and she really, wanted to text me and get me informed but in the end she didnt. This is strange because i have nothink common to her family and we are in no contact i met her grandfather only once (but i know she loved him). In this moment iam getting suspicius that her BF isnt enough supportive to her and she is unhappy.

    So what do you think guys. Is she unhappy becouse she doesnt get enough support and probably is sexualy unsatisfied or iam misunderstanding. I want to repeat succes and get further. But i think this will be harder because before it was more spontaneuse. Shoud ia arrange meeting wit her? Try BFdestroyer? text her and get in contact more often?

    Thanks for your all thouts and advices and again sorry for my english


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