Girlfriend and I were having some problems. Frequent fights. She would get drunk often and pass out, or do some outrageous/embarrassing thing while intoxicated. I was frustrated, and one night, after having a few too many myself, I reached out to an ex. Big mistake.
The girlfriend finds out a few weeks later and kicks me out of the apartment. I do the usual chump thing of calling/texting too many times, sending flowers, going by her house and trying to talk to her etc. Finally, she calls me and says that she is going to the police and will ask for a restraining order. This freaked me out, but I kind of had the feeling that she was bluffing. I tried calling her back and found that my number had been blocked. At this point, I basically gave up. No woman (or man) is worth going to jail, losing one's job, etc.
Late that same night (Sunday), she calls me. Says "I left the door unlocked for you. I need you to come over." So I go over there. She's in bed. I get into the bed and put my arms around her. She starts calling me names, telling me that I am the biggest ******* she has ever met, she can't stand me, etc. I put my hands down the front of her panties while she was insulting me and she was VERY aroused. I turned her over on to her stomach and entered her. We had sex twice -- once that night, once the next morning.
In the morning, she is still insulting me. "I hate you." "It was just sex. It didn't feel the same." "I don't love you any more." But every time that I would turn away from her or move to the other side of the bed, she would scoot up next to me and put her head on my chest.
She ended up giving me a ride home. I asked her what she wanted to do. She said "I don't know yet" and "do you think you can leave me alone for awhile?" She also asked me not to tell anyone what had happened the night before.
I go about my day....that night I get a text from a friend who says that he just saw my girfriend and my ex talking to each other about me at a local bar.
So.....if the girlfriend is done with me and hates me as much as she claims to, why the hell would she meet with my ex to talk about me?
My plan right now is to leave her alone until maybe Friday, then email and ask if she would like to go to dinner or meet up for a drink.