Ok so about 6 months ago while away at Military training I ended up messaging an old friend from high school. We both just got out of long term relationships and agreed we werent looking to jump right back into things. Hung out a few times and before you know it I was staying at her house every night we had off. Went too the beach together, sex often, she would oack my lunch and leave notes.... basically relationship shit. While at the beach I caught her messaging another guy. She said it was nothing but I ended up going through her phone and she had been talking to him alot and flirting. I told her I went through her phone, and told her that if thats what she wants this relationship to be thats fine but I'm going to act single too. Thing wer downhill after the beach. Ahe said I had no trust in her and about a month later she pulled the whole I need time to work on myself line. I tried to chang her mind and say how good things were and that if we actually dated and I knew she was only interested in me that I would trust her 100%. Things were up and down and then I showed up at her place after a party shit faced and passed out on the couch. The next moring she didn't want too kiss me so I left and came back that evening. I told her if she didn't want this to tell me to leave her alone and I would. She said tbays not she wants and tried to say yo me that I had my life all figured out and ahe couldnt even pick out dinner. She was leaving for work and I said listen I need to know where we stand, I'm not going to play this game. She said I need time, hugged her and left. Been NC for 2 weeks. Only problem is we frequent the same gym and bar. Havent ran into each other yet but we will soon. Where ahould I go with this.