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Thread: space, I don't know what to do.

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    Default space, I don't know what to do.

    Long story but ill keep it short. Met an amazing girl that I was with for 6 weeks. Best relationship ever and it was. We both liked each other allot and had so much fun together. Now Details, she's 21 i'm 28. She just got out of a relationship a month before. there was a bit of drama from that side but i didn't let it bug me because it is normal. So i had a shitty living situation and moved in with her dumb but we both agreed it would be cool. Two weeks ago she asked for space but i was headed 400 miles aways for a bachelor party and during that time she was begging for me to come back. A week later she asks for space again, this time I moved out and played it completely cool and agreed. Since that day I dropped all contact. It s small town so now i'm hearing she was over at her ex's house twice to my knowledge. I know that I am a better guy then he is plus he plays the begging and manipulating game to get her back. I'm gonna continue not contact. It did take her 4 days to text me.
    Her: Are you mad at me
    M: no
    H: well I haven't heard from you in a few days
    M: Ive been busy with hunting
    H: oh Alright
    M: I havent heard from you either I though you were in jail
    H: Why would i be in jail haha
    M:with you, who know you probably robbed a bank next time bring me as a get away driver
    H:Bahah alright Ill keep that in mind

    That was 2 days ago and no contact since, my question do I continue to freeze or Say I don't want to be apart of this anymore? I do like her allot but sometimes it's not worth the trouble when the chances maybe slim of it actually working. Was i just being used as a emotional pillow from her breakup and now shes considering go back to him. I know that I am ten times greater of a guy then he is but he plays a dirty game of manipulation using family sickness and talking to her mother. I would like to ask why she talking with her ex, 2 reasons, she is trying to purse that or she is being a friend to him because his mom has cancer again. Any thoughts would be appreciated

    Bobby

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    Default Re: space, I don't know what to do.

    Her head is with her ex . 100% leave her . Time will tell. 'Most likely he doesnt want anything to do with her at the moment so she will move on eventually.

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    Default Re: space, I don't know what to do.

    1- She invested too much in him and has too much emotions pinned to him.
    2- The drama, them hoes love the drama
    3- She is used to him

    Use my boyfriend destroying technique

    Stop the Freeze Out but stay pulled back !
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: space, I don't know what to do.

    I know with pickup it can make it seem we have complete control over women, but it's simply not true. I prefer to look at it as influence.

    She's definitely not over him. It's not unlikely that someone would love someone else after a month from their ex, but if they broke up pretty impulsively and emotionally it'll be hard to beat that.

    I don't think you're doing anything wrong. I also think that this is one you simply can't win. Trust me I been there and know the frustration of losing control over whether you are with the woman you want or not. But it happens. Hard to hear, but it's time to walk away my friend.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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