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    Dicemaster is offline PUA in Training Achievements:
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    Default I dumped her before she soft nexts me!

    Hello fellas,

    Long story short,

    I have been in a LTR with HB and thing were not going well. So one day she adds some guy in instagram which she barely know from where her kid goes to shool, i mean he is a drama teacher. She asked his number for share infos and also followed in instagram which made me warned my guts told me it goes yo shit.

    So from the start that relation i told her i do not approve that shit and she should erase him. I know it is a bit childish but the story between them exacly how we started to relationship with her so. Everybody says you should trust your guts.

    I tols her if she wont tmerase him and cut the contact she must erase me and end the relationahip. Wanna see with that how beyond is their relationship. She said no. And tricked me it wont be a problem. But at the end he likes her posts and everything. They also meet in school etc.

    At the end i told ahe must choice me or him. She said she wont erase him so i dumped her.

    I think she tried to soft next me and i did not fell this trap and cut the contact.

    This situation also hurts mt ego cuz her choice was about to lost me. So i m gone nc.

    What to do i dunno but wanna see her crawling back to me.

    I wont contact even if i die for the pain it cause.

    They are still in contact.

    I think time to forget.

    Any thoughts will be wellcomed.


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    Default Re: I dumped her before she soft nexts me!

    So you ended you're relationship because you're partner added her kids teacher on Instagram and he added her back and started liking her posts???? And you want her to crawl back to you.......

    A few points:

    1.Its her Kids teacher.
    2.Its Instagram
    3.youre meant to like shit on Instagram
    4. She probably one of maybe 15 people this teacher has as follows on Instagram so her stuff pops up a lot.
    5. You're meant to follow people you meet on Insta.
    6. Why are you stalking her Insta?
    7. Why are you stalking her likes?
    8. Why are you so threatened by this guy?
    9. What is it that makes you insecure?
    10. If you are this Jelous, Threatned & insecure then why would you want her to come crawling back.

    I don't know wether to feel sorry for you because you actually believe your in the right which is ridiculous or for the girl you dumped because she dedicated time and energy just to receive this bullshit.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: I dumped her before she soft nexts me!

    Her adding the guy might have been done as a sh*t test. Imo, the op failed by acting insecure and feeling threatened. If a relationship is secure it will survive small things like that. As long as the guy isn't asking for her number or trying get a date I don't see what the big deal is.

    Imagine this situation. You are out with a woman and some guy starts talking to her. She is with you and it's obvious she is with you. If you try to let the guy know you are with her and try to intimidate the guy and "mark your territory" so to speak then you only lose points with her. Have some faith and trust her that she will not try to hook up in front of you. If you are still new to dating this woman then remember she is still on a date with YOU and not him and will respect that(unless she's some kind of prostitute). In the situation presented above you got needy and your girlfriend wasn't going to play along. You tried to test her but she wasn't falling for it and even though you told her you were done she was totally ok with that because she doesn't want to be with a guy who doesn't trust her.

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