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  1. #21
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    Default Re: Need to WIN girl back badly-Urgent Suggestion

    One quick question, that would be helpful for the future!

    In the second line of the third paragraph of my long story, I wrote that the girl said that "hey, you are looking good" by the end of a light conversation. What could be the implications of that statement? What should we do ideally if a girl say such a thing?
    specially looking forward to hear from Raven and Crobinson!

  2. #22
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    Default Re: Need to WIN girl back badly-Urgent Suggestion

    That is what we call an "ioi" or an indicator of interet. As Mystery (A pua guru) says, once you get 3 IOIs you Phase Shift and begin to start escalating sexually and kinoing her. I may be wrong on this, i frequently am; but I think thats what is sposed to go down. Also, smile and thank her!!

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    Default Re: Need to WIN girl back badly-Urgent Suggestion

    yes. u are right that it is an Indicator Of Interest and after so many she is invitng you basically to Kino and sexually escalate but when girls decide to give me a compliment , most guys would compliment back. me personally, i like to be cocky funny. "hey are you trying to charm me? i dont just hop in bed you know :P" after she does some other things ill then reward her but i dont quite want to reciprocate when something like that happens.
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    Default Re: Need to WIN girl back badly-Urgent Suggestion

    I never did much with cocky funny, i always came off as a prick when i tried it.

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    Default Re: Need to WIN girl back badly-Urgent Suggestion

    you just have to have the right energy and a smile so she knows its cocky funny. and dont go too cocky. just playful
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  6. #26
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    @Crown - Grimbo is right, it is an ioi. If you hit the gym a lot and dress real well you'll get a ton, but you need to know how to handle them. If a girl said that to me, I might find something weird to compliment, like her shoelaces. I might say something like, "You know what else is looking good... those shoelaces," with a smirk and in a slow, slightly deeper tone of voice and and eyebrow raised. Never retaliate by complimenting a girls eyes, or smile. It's too cliche, although I liked complimenting smiles during direct openers.

    I wouldn't take the 3 IOI's too seriously. I just follow my intuitions. Mystery tends to get too technical and oddly mechanical at times, but 3 is a good general number. Sometimes a girl will just give you a blatant IOI that signals you can begin escalating immediately. One time a girl I knew slightly told me she really liked me totally out of nowhere at a bar and I made a few jokes and touched her arm and she started kissing me (she was sober). If a girl tells me blatantly I'm hot and is playing with her hair I take it as like, 3 IOI's right off the bat. Sometimes all you need to do after an IOI is look a girl deep in the eyes with a smirk and she'll basically swoon right there, but you need to have a solid frame and confidence. The more IOI's you get the better you'll learn to handle them.

    @Grimbo - Me either, bro. My theory is confident/funny, although I definitely make a cocky comment here and there. For example, a few weeks ago when I was leaving a girl's house (now my GF) and she told me she had a great time, I told her "I know" and smiled. And she was like "what?" and pushed me and we both started laughing real hard. So you can be cocky if you smile and laugh. That's really the secret - don't ever be serious when you say anything cocky, ever. Don't feign it, just say it jokingly.

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    Default Re: Need to WIN girl back badly-Urgent Suggestion

    man i shulda joind this paige along time ago. its funny you made this mistake with one girl. iv put about a bakerz duzn up there.... and watched em all fall on there face =p

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    Default Re: Need to WIN girl back badly-Urgent Suggestion

    on the pedestal i mean lol

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    Default Re: Need to WIN girl back badly-Urgent Suggestion

    This is terrible to see. Stop everything you've been doing now. If you want to reverse anything, you need to be seen as a happy, independent person who doesn't need her anymore. Go NC for months, even a year, until she reaches out to u again cause she'll wonder how you've possibly forgot about her. And if she doesn't hit you back up again, well then she was just a h-e who used u to fill gaps

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    Default Re: Need to WIN girl back badly-Urgent Suggestion

    get a new girl dont fuck around and bullshit yourself.


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