here's the situation
im no pro, but i could use some feedback.
been seing a girl for 3 weeks, had sex a couple of times, all is well.
last weekend i left back home for two days (visit my rents), when i came back i saw her, and she wasnt feeling all so good (she seemed troubed and was sick and puking all over).
thought it was just a bad virus. but no. intuition was right, because come monday morning i got the following text:
her: thanks for everything you got me really glad i got to see you and sorry if i looked liked sh1t hope u had fun XD ill call u tmrw because i need to tell u something! xxx
me --> casually replied asking what that thing was (i already knew). she then proceded by saying,
"i just think things went too fast and i dont want anything too serious right now. ur not the problem, ure really great tho!" . classic. sad. lame.
anyone who has some respect for himself will just move on. but shes a 10. and friends with benefits is not something i want. i want her back. but on my terms
proceeded with the Freeze Out, didnt talk to her or initiate contact for 4 days now (i was still politely responding to some txts from her until friday of last week, so to not seem uninterested and rude), but she txt-ed me today, asking if all was ok.
do i respond? by no means do i want to push her back even more.
do i let it go and ignore her?
if u need any other info ill provide
Note: i know the reason for her dumping me was that she hooked up with another guy over the weekend i was gone, and she "didnt want to do this to me again", by that she meant, cheat on a guy who would was a little too good or her from the start --> info i got from her friend after promissing to keep this info to myself.
any feedback will be GREATLY APPRECIATED!!!