I want my girl back guys. Anyone wanna help?

Hey. So, I met this girl, and when I met her she wanted a boyfriend like really really bad, or she was horny, idk. And I told her that she was really cute and she told me I was cute too. And we liked eachother. And all of the sudden I thought she was a creep. And when she tried to talk to me I'd ignore or tell her Stfu. And she still stuck with me. (that's why I love her so much) And then I liked her again. And weed send nudes and stuff. And then she cheated on me. I was still her favorite tho. But when I told her that I was breaking up with her for cheating she said that she wants to take a break herself. But it wasn't but an hour before that that she was all like. I love you baby and I'd die if you ever left me. But now she's gone and I still love her and idk what to do. And she never makes any contact with me and I don't with her. What should I do? I want her back so bad.

I'm sorry I left out some pretty important details... I met her almost a year ago on Facebook. When I met her she was into me, and I was into her. We flirted a lot. And a few months later she acted all perverted and that's when I thought she was a creep. She almost seemed desperate. But then she left me and I told her I wanted to eat her out. And I send nudes and she liked me again. Then a few days later she had to move to Paris for a few months for school there. I sent her nudes probably a few times a week. We sexted.... And we did that for about a month. And then one day I found out she was sexting other guys. And I dumped her. She then told me she was moving on too. And that she only wanted to fool around. But whats strange is the 2 or 3 days before that she told me how she loved me and she missed me and all that stuff. Shed tell me that like every day. Like, a whole conversation about how she loved me. She even told me that she would die if I ever dumped her litteraly 2 hours before she told me that she wanted to move on. She even posted on Facebook that she met a new guy. We haven't talked in about 3 days. Idk what to do I love her so much. A long time ago She only wanted to talk to me and I'd reply with a Stfu. Ur a freak. And I hated her. And she still stuck right by my side. :'( and I love her now and idk what to do. I just want her back.

I know what im about to say is gonna be really hard to do, cuz u must be constantly thinking about her. The truth is I learned this the hard way, but flowers and i love u messages simply don't work. U must avoid contact with her for a minimum of like a month. Also in that month try improving urself; hit the gym, get a tan, whiten ur teeth, dress differently and stay well groomed. Also at the same time date different girls and have a great time. Make sure u post pics of urself having a good time on fb, even if she doesn't have u as a friend ur mutual friends will probably tell her. If she doesn't contact u then try to slowly get back into her life. Don't push her too much to get back u must first become friends with her and re-spark her feelings. Take her on casual dates after a little while and always stay HAPPY AND CHEERFUL. Being happy and cheerful is the most important thing. BTW u could always read great books on how to Pick Up Girls and understanding women such as The Game,The mystery method and How to Become an Alpha Male by John Alexander.

whenever some guys come to these forums, they are pretty much asking us to help them be more of an AFC.

i dont like it.

I agree, I don't take exes back. There is a reason you've broken it off and there are so many other chicks out there. Why waste the effort.

Dude, Relationships are hard. Rambo has some sound advice, follow what he says, and you'll have no trouble.

Finchy x

>< Because it's worth it ><

Its really a bad thing losing someone you love

this girl does not sound like she is worth the trouble dude, she sounds like wayyy too much drama, its like youre on a roller coaster ride with these bi polar mood swings. youll get over her dude. meet other women, improve yourself, and enjoy life.

Pierrot, chill, there's no need to say something like that. This is how most of us got into this community, including me. Either this or "Hey I suck with girls" or "Hey I want this girl really bad". The thing is he found us and we're willing to help him. Either by saying what works to Get Her Back or what works with getting over her and become a PUA.

Youre right. Its funny because I joined the community because of a breakup, but not because i wanted to get someone back. I just wanted to reinforce it to myself that I will be as callus as I could.