This is my first post here and I made this account so I could look for some help getting my ex back. For some back story: Me and my ex dated for a year and a half, it was a semi long-distance relationship. We lived about 2 hours away from each other and since she was in HS at the time we only got to see each other a couple times a month. We did however have very strong feelings for each other that never seemed to fade throughout the relationship, and we talked daily for hours. However we did get into occasional arguments and during one of our last fights we broke up (January 2011).
She started dating a guy shorty after who she recently became friends with, and they fooled around but she never went all the way with him (I was her first, and only so far). He broke up with her in April and she was upset for a couple days, but quickly got over it. A few days after they broke up she approached me on FB about hooking up with no strings attached, I figured she was just rebounding and kind of blew it off. However we still talk all the time, and she is still interested in being friends with benefits. I still have very strong feelings for her, but I am not just interested in hooking up with her. I did get together with a couple other women since we broke up in January, but honestly she is the only girl I really see myself wanting to date, and that feeling is not going away.
Tonight she suggested we go to a rave together, I was happy at first and said I would like to, but then she brought up that she would probably dance with other guys and that I wouldn't like it. I didn't react much, but of course that's a little disheartening to hear when I am still interested in her. Honestly I know I am being very beta right now, but I do love this girl, and we have talked to each other and been with each other for so long that I don't feel like giving up on her yet.
If anyone has any advice on how I should even approach situations with her I'd like to hear it. Thanks in advance for reading and any help I may receive.