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    Valenti is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Next step would be....

    Hail friends, long time-lurker, finally decided to post.

    I shall keep it short. As a side note, whatever I've done I did so using all the skills I've gathered from here. Cheers.

    So a month ago my girl came up to me and said that she wants to have fun being single, maybe make out with other guys at parties, but still continue to fool around with me. Her bestfriend (recently dumped) had always hated me and I'm sure that she had an influence in my girl's decision. "My bestfriend is now single, she gets to enjoy a single summer, I want that too!" You know how girls think hehe.

    I told her that she can do whatever she wants, but it would be the end of us; we wouldn't be even friends. She hasn't shown any loyalty so why should I keep her around if I can't trust her? Lacking brains, she said she wanted a single life for now so, with a heavy heart, I dumped her delicious ass. Sources tell me she cried her eyes out.

    During this month of singleness I had a verye xciting time. Met new girls, improved myself and my skills, new job (hell yea). I've changed a lot basically and I made certain that she learned of my success through the grapevine. Apparently so did she: she kept partying with her friends nearly all week, etc... We had no contact whatsoever during this month, she did however flirt with me on one of my Facebook statuses, to which I indirectly flirted back.

    Yesterday we both went out with mutual friends, and I ignored her. It was the first time we met after the break-up. I would have talked back in a friendly manner only if she came up to me. A couple of things happened:
    - She learned, through a friend, that I might possibly be seeing someone else soon.
    - The only time she talked to me I replied back fine, but I don't know why I looked at the ground whilst doing so. Felt like an idiot. Then I walked away.
    - I was the "party" of the group, and looked extra sexy, to which the girls complimented me on.
    - As a revenge I think, she started hitting a lot on my bestfriend in front of me, and only told him good-bye at the end.
    - After, she added a bunch of random guys on Facebook.

    Now this is where I'm lost. I have no idea what to do next. All I know is that she is jealous and pissed at me, and that I want her back. Should I confront her or let her come to me? Knowing her, she'll try to make me jealous even more. Mind you I never show that I'm jealous.

    Much thanks friends.

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    Valenti is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Next step would be....

    Not to sound impatient, but if anyone could offer me advice whilst this short window of opportunity is still open to me I would really appreciate it

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    Sheik Yerbouti is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Next step would be....

    "Ignoring her" was a mistake. You should have/should acknowledge her, but act like it's no big thing, she's not completely special. By ignoring her, you were empowering her, 'cos she knows you are affected, and worse, she knows you were playing insecure mind games. And don't look down at the ground. That is submissive, and on a guy, looks weak.

    Show some dominance and exercise some control. Keep your distance. No contact. Let her go mental thinking about you. She'll become re-attracted.

    Don't tell her you miss her or love her. Just don't!

    Law of the jungle: That which we pursue, retreats from us; that which we retreat from, pursues us.

    Give some time 'n space. If she doesn't contact you in a few weeks, call her up. Don't be needy or sullen, don't play a victim or try any guilt trips. That's for losers, and girls hate it. Be friendly, ask her out for a coffee or tea.

    Take it from there.
    Last edited by Sheik Yerbouti; 06-07-2011 at 06:07 PM. Reason: editing


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